Michelle,<BR> Please don't feel that giving this to God is giving up! That is who you should be giving it to,completely,for we BS can never control what WS does or how they chose to act, and there is no one more capable of turning things around than the Lord God Himself. Place your own well being there as well and He will wrap you in His love and comfort you. Many of us have experienced the same kind of behavior you are seeing in H.He is self absorbed.Just take care of yourself and your son and let God do the rest.God bless you Michelle.