Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Many of our WSs started their affairs via the Internet. My H refound an old HS friend and they started chatting. Soon they were chatting 2-3 hours a day on ICQ. I don't know when he worked. Eventually, she came and visited us and that led to a PA. It is very painful. It takes time. The people on this board are very supportive and encouraging. You are always welcome here. Good luck to you.