Lonesome ~

My C says H's first response to any request of any kind is resistance. (understatement!) I've modified some of my behavior that seems successful. I have a history of taking on too much responsibility while my H is carefree and oblivious.

This could be me and my H, that's for sure. I've also discovered that by giving options, that I get a much better response. Just like with my kids, I seem to need to give him a set of choices, and then all of a sudden, he feels in control or something...

So then, where are MY varied options and choices darn it?! I want a different menu too please!

Pain is a given, misery is optional.