Chris,<p>Thank you. I'll vouch for Dr. Laura's statement. I'm living proof.<p>Bad thing is I was very concerned about this happening (not her A, never even thought about that) before we married. We discussed the kids and spent a LOT of time with them talking with them about what we were planning. We discussed parenting between ourselves and she always reassured me that "we" would be a family.<p>She always said she would never cheat on me. Looking back, she said that to me a lot [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] <p>As for myself, once bitten twice shy.