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Okay - let's stop the madness - we've had a few level-headed pleas for that - now let's just STOP!!<p>FS - I hope that you have found some good advice from some of these posts, and maybe even have learned a bit more about the pain of betrayal. Perhaps, in retrospect, this wasn't the best forum to post about your situation. Hmmm. My H and I have recovered and because it has been two years I think I'm able to handle some things differently. (not necessarily better, just differently [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] ) Who knows how I would have responded if the outcome of my H's affair had been different??<p>So, take care - I sincerely hope everything works out for the best for everyone. <p>I think this thread should be locked now.
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I would be curious to know the opinions of a counselor/psychologist about the need of attention and the behavior that one would participate in order to get that attention. <p>This reminds me of the Jerry Springer show where people who reveal facts about their lives that just should be dealt with in private and with a counselor. I see people there who are so obviously doing wrong and are shocked to see the crowd boo them. It just boggles the mind that anyone could justify such unwize behavior. <p>The attention received must be greater in value than the embarrassment. The control one would have over others in creating the attention also must have its own rewards. There's a sickness there.
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Z - I can't believe you've taken this to my questioning your right to existance or something. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] Really, I'm not getting that deep, and it was a jab meant to rile you up, which worked I see.<p>You came off as pious, then I noticed your signature line. I don't know your whole story, but I also don't know many people that have been married three times. Although, my dad could be coming up on his third someday. I sure as hell wouldn't take marriage advice from him.<p>[ June 06, 2002: Message edited by: findingmywayback ]</p>
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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by findingmywayback: <strong>Z - I can't believe you've taken this to my questioning your right to existance or something. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] Really, I'm not getting that deep, and it was a jab meant to rile you up, which worked I see.<p>You came off as pious, then I noticed your signature line. I don't know your whole story, but I also don't know many people that have been married three times. Although, my dad could be coming up on his third someday. I sure as hell wouldn't take marriage advice from him.<p>[ June 06, 2002: Message edited by: findingmywayback ]</strong><hr></blockquote><p>And you come off as childish and bitter. Since when do we let 8th graders in here? Good grief...... <p> [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ June 06, 2002: Message edited by: MelodyLane ]</p>
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Baptist. Ok, so where in the bible is it ok for you to be a part of putting assunder what God joined together. Where is the part in the bible that says it's ok to steal another woman's husband? <p>You want to join a church.........but you don't obey the Word of God??????????<p>Going to church doesn't make you any more of a Christian than sleeping in your garage makes you a Chevy.<p>You're just fooling yourself, not Him.
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OK.<p>I think that we have all said enough here. It is time to move on.
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