Sweden,
It doesn't look like there is much you can do until:
1. you get more information about what W is doing.
2. The counsler tells you what your options are. <p>What would happen if you told her " nothing is going to happen for - probably 6 months, ( or whatever it is)so lets get along and act like we are married and see where we end up?" <p>Does she react to straight talk? <p>I can't see any changes right away, don't see what you could do different. Perhaps you could get JL to weigh in on this one, he usually has a different angle. <p>SS

SS,
Yes, I agree! Not a lot I can do...That's what makes this so frustrating. One has to just sit around and deal with it. I guess it builds character [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img]
I came home from a long walk last night, and the first thing she said after I came through the door was "sorry." I asked for what? and she stated it was for giving our youngest ice cream after he didn't eat his dinner. I said that I appreciated her apology! She was again nice to me this morning. I'm not sure why the 180, but I'll take what I can get...<p>I'm smart enough not to interpret it as nothing more than what it is, a little break in the action. I feel if she could only receive a job, then maybe she'd start feeling better about herself. But when she receives a job, she'll also have more of an incentive to give me the boot (or try). Tricky...<p>We'll see how the rest of the day plays out.<p>Sweden