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Ya know Spacecase, youre right. I am not going to initiate any coming home, he will have to do that. And if he does he will have to on conditions, otherwise it will never work because I will never trust him.
BIG BICEPS until then
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I would love for my WH to counsel with Steve H to help him understand what he is going through, I asked him to call Steve about 2 months ago, gave him the info, he said he would, but never did.
Question, pick A,B,C
A. Send quick email giving him the information again in case he misplaced it moving.
B. Wait until he contacts me and mention it and give him the info.
C. Do nothing (until he really seems interested in this marriage)
I figured everyone would "C" but want to confirm thoughts.
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C would get my vote..It is difficult to help someone that doesn't want your help... he may also view it as controlling as many WS do. You offered once before, if he wants to speak with Steve he will ask you for the number. Remain distant, let him come back to you, then set your conditions for a return.
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just wanted to bump this up!!!
How are you doing?????
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by blondblossom:
<strong>just wanted to bump this up!!!
How are you doing?????
BB</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">living my screen name!!!
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