justthewife,

You don't need to justify anything to anyone. I do admire your courage and strength in standing up for yourself though.

I don't care what you do for entertainment, in the interest of education, friendship or any other motivation that you might have.

But if you'd like to continue this debate with these people, YOU GO GIRL!

E_C

What is TOW? (Hope I don't sound too ignorant)

Whoa... I had no idea we had such a fan club going over there. I mean, they are following our every move and making note of it. There like a bunch of phsycopaths. She's gonna sick her flying monkeys on us next!!

Sue with hope - www.gloryb.com

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OMG...checked out the site. It's soooo sad that others are so interested in hurting others instead of finding PRODUCTIVE ways to help prevent things like this from happening. I didn't read any conversations on the scarleta site that sounded any less juvenile and vengeful than those on the gloryb site. Just people finding ways to ridicule and hurt other people. Really really sad <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

I don't get it. They comment on that board what we post here?

What is the deal....

Phoenixx, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> the confused guy looks sad, so I won't put him here... have no clue who you are, but I appreciate it.

Hope4Future, they say it's OK to lampoon me because I choose to hang out with that kind of people... It's "my" fault that I was lampooned, I chose to lie down with dogs and wake up with fleas - taken directly from their site. Also, since I feel so comfortable around that type, there must be a reason, they tossed in the old walked like a duck.... I was advised to surround myself with those of a higher moral...

But I like you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I think you are high. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

In college once I got high. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> Wrong board?

Cali,
I bet if you started a thread with a little explaination of stuff... People grow.

EC, I'm going to stand up for myself. I should have stayed away from the site before. I knew it was mean spirited, but it was like a highway accident. Thanks for the support.

Sue, TOW is The Other Woman, or www.gloryb.com
It's a site for people involved in affairs, on the other side. Don't go there unless you can handle it, it's where the OW and OM live like we live here. You can't go in and think you are going to change anyone, or tell them something they don't know. (not just telling you - anyone that reads too)

Dac,

Is there any reason that I can no longer go to scarleta.com and see the posts?

jtw

Hippo is mad at you. Just like immature children, she has taken her ball and won't let you play. Hippo should be chopped up into little pieces for firewood.

I Just went over to TOW site......the only thing I can say about those posters is -

DELUSIONAL!

There are two threads over there where I actually laughed out loud- one was "Trust Factor"- about MM and the OW being able to trust each other, and the other was about "soulmates"- almost every OW who replied to that post declared the OM is her soulmate, and almost every OW's situation with the MM was the same- MM would not leave his W. I don't think those are bad people posting over there, but ..........

DELUSIONAL!

And yes, lots of W bashing. But it actually made me feel good actually- to know the OW have plenty of insecurities about their situation, more than the MM would like to know!

Oh darn, I can't read it, tell me what they're saying! I think I've been banned! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

oh no lizzie banned, how awful. just do what they all do come up with a new name.

No sing, it's much worse than that! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

She banned my IP address I think. When I click on that page I can only see things up till this afternoon.

I never had a name or password, or posted on that site. I just read a few times.

I wonder if she'll come back here....

She had questions, didn't she like my answers?

I guess I'm not good enough for her.

But you love me don't you Sing? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Maybe she thought that she was my Mother and that she could pick my friends for me.

Hmmm, even Mom and Dad stopped doing that a long time ago.

Jesus had lots of friends. I'm not really the best at remembering all the stories and verses and stuff, but didn't he love everyone? It really didn't matter to him what people had done.

He liked to be kind, he made friends with all sorts of people.

He told people that forgiveness was important, and that the only one fit to judge was His Father.

I'm in no way comparing myself to Him. That's one thing I'll never do. But one thing I will do is try to follow the footsteps as best as I can.

I don't do it well, I mess up all the time. I swear, I miss church, and in general I could use some work.

The one thing I know I can be proud of though is that I am kind. That will never change.

E

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> The one thing I know I can be proud of though is that I am kind. That will never change.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">oh Lizzie girl, I think you can be pround so much more than just being kind. However even if you weren't funny, articulate ( I spelled it wrong & to lazy to check it), loyal beyond believe, being just kind would not be a bad thing.

I've been reading more stuff over there- but I have to stop because it's really hurtful. Again, I don't think anyone over there is a bad person, but jeez- you guys/girls should go over there and read all the terrible stuff they say about this site, even the Harleys! I don't understand how they can find find fault with us- I am a BS and have done my best on this site not to offend any WS here. But at the same time I have a right to be angry in my situation, which they make fun of, and I am here to try and save my marriage, which they also make fun of. (Not me specifically because I don't post there, but of BS in general). I don't understand how so many OW there believe the WH lies about how terrible and awful their wives are. And then of course, the OW hate us, and blame us, for everything. It just makes me sad, because in my situation at least, I have never done anything to the OW my husband had an affair with, and she hates me and tells people horrible things about me. Probably of stuff my WS has told her.

I did read several posts I could sympathize with, but on the whole it seems like the whole purpose of that board over there is to justify their wrongdoings, blame the BS, and make fun of this site. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Wha...the... <think, think>... did E ever tell me about her twin uteruses? I don't remember. This certainly would have made a difference in our friendship.

NOT!

Why, oh why, do you have to explain this to people Liz? God, I hate that you felt the need to do it.

So I was lurking around, as I am prone to do, and I saw this. Always on the prowl for something more interesting that my poor life, and look at what I find.

YOU HAVE BEEN BANNED FROM AN INTERNET SITE! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Oh my GOODNESS. The shame! The unadulterated horror! I must avert my eyes!!

Someone, and I do have a suggestion on the WHO original poster, needs to get over themselves. 'Nuff said.

Hey Lizzie, love ya!

Worth...I'm sorry if I seemed not "honorable" enough for you. I just posed a train of thought...plain and simple...
I will elaborate...

I am a long time lurker here. I have another name, although I don't post under it much either, so it wouldn't make any difference to you. Let's just say that I've been here since early 2000. yup. Long time. Anyway, as far as being honorable, I wonder what you meant, as I just stated a possible train of thought.

Now...to the scarleta/canofun boards.
If <IF> you look (dare to look) deeper into the things that are offered there, there's MUCH more than that ole VENT board. Lots of sources and sites that are referenced...lots of boards that offer real support, and lots of info. about all kinds of things pertinent to BS.

There are many folks "lampooned" on the vent board. It is a VENT...and based upon REAL posts...
It amazes me that making "fun" or "lampooning" the REAL WORDS of posters on other boards that advocate cheating causes such a ruckus.

If <IF> you read the posts (and the archives) of the board, there's much there to chuckle about, and much to grieve about, and much to laugh about, and much to shake one's head at.

I feel sorry that HAH feels this was so aimed at her. It has not been and isn't, really. It's about venting about the world of cheaters. It's about lampooning those that think cheating is ok. It's a place to question, even about those who are BS that post in such places...It's a place to let off steam and be silly...
It's a place where even the posters make fun of themselves, for goodness sake! And reading it for a time proves that.

It's not a place to make fun of misery of the BS...many posters there are NOT even BS. Go figure. They are people making light (or heavy)of the garbage on OP boards...based upon the OP's REAL words...they are people, like the VAST majority of people, who thing INFIDELITY is WRONG....GO FIGURE! ????

I wish folks would also get straight which boards they are referring to. For example, Libby's post, just up above. I <think> it's about gloryb...and not about scarlet...I don't know. This is how confusing this has gotten!

HAH. I understand the horrible situation you are in. I'm sorry for it. It must be unimaginable. Yet, I wonder at your propensity to visit and befriend ow sites, but that is for you to know. But, as clearly stated on the scarlet site, some folks do not know what reasons you are there. Some persons who post there and lampoon, do just that. If you are on the ow site, talking about showing clarkie your two vaginas, then they probably have reason to wonder. I mean, really...

I still will pose my original train of thought.
If "lampooning" the VERY words of OP are SO APPALLING, then are not those REAL words even more appalling???
I for one, find cheating very repugnant, whatever side one finds oneself on. It is better to "lampoon" it on a specific site, rather than go cause havoc on the specific boards.

Come ON people...

jmo. JMO....

TY

Pearly...

Dac,
one day, i see you post something about NOT lambasting the BS, and poofing any thread that does so.
next day, i see this post about any BS that whould lower herself to lie with dogs, deserves it. retraction...

ALL because you saw the stay and Ill show you my ... thread.

You are DIRT. You are an idiot. You do not understand caring and love, and for that, i feel for you.

You don't think I know about the "wedding" invasion? (see your a member there too huh) Wonder why i didnt make that public? Because i KNEW most were teenagers & 20 somethings, dont know what YOUR excuse was, you old hag.

One thing the forum owner over there (Du-op), understands, is an open and free forum. In fact, it just got TOO free, for even poofboy to be a part of... vile & bile from a few, over & over gets old.

Hugs to those who have worn both hats. I get it.

For those who have made REAL friends, regardless of what "hat" we last wore, you are truly special. You know it, i know it, the people with brains know it.

hugs, clarkie on tow, clarkie on mb, clarkie on scarleta for a day till you banned me, clarkie on AOS, PHIL.com, icom, SA, you name it... just clarkie everywhere (no longer mod on tow, so ignore that part of the sig line)

I am soooo confused <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

I need a hug.

Pepper <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

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Here it is... in a nutshell...

Dac posts on scarletA which invades TOW quite OFTEN.

Justthewife posts on TOW as hadahusband... (a few other MBrs post at TOW, too)...

Dac thinks that the BSs who are posting on TOW are ingratiating themselves and 'sleeping with the enemy' so to speak...

ScarletA has a vent board that lampoons many of the TOW posts... Dac... who is Bippo (I think) on that board has posted a couple of times lambasting JTW (aka HAH on TOW)...

...for some reason Dac felt the burning NEED to OUT JTW here... though JTW has always been ABOVE board over there (on TOW) and those who post there knew she posted here and what her username was and vice versa...

... what a waste of time ... eh?

Cali

"...what a waste of time...eh?" ..... meanness usually is.

Well .... at least I got a hug! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thanks Cali.

Pepper <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />