Wen:

I'm sorry you're deleting your posts. I was busy yes2rday afternoon and all morning this morning, so I didn't even see them. I can hope that JL's posts 2 you were taken well. He's one wise old man ( <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )! He REALLY means you well, believe me (though I've got a few bruises that still haven't healed from when he smacked me upside the haid with that MB 2x4, they hurt a LOT less than I would by now if I'd done what I was ABOUT 2 do in March!). And I REALLY like that pancake metaphor! (I'm going 2 use that one, JL!).

MOWL: Why are you being such a turd, here? Sure, some of the things you're saying might even be true (like Wen living with OM), but heck, YOU are still living with your GF! You and Wen need 2 pick and choose. You're already DV'd, so one choice would be 2 stay with your respective Sig Others (maybe the easiest choice if NEITHER of you had gotten involved with them 2soon!). And so the other choice is 2 break off with your Sigos and work alone on yourselves before trying 2 reconcile and remarry.

What do you WANT 2 do? And how does that compare with what you KNOW 2 be the RIGHT thing 2 do?

All my best,