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OK, ALS will provide the whine, I'm going to supply the cheese, now who is going to bring the crackers? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Ah what the heck, I'll bring the nuts and crackers too since a lot of people beleive I'm both. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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I'm sure someone here's got some crackers.

I guess I'm still feeling a bit insecure about the filing, regardless of knowing that it was the best thing for me to do, it still is a sad time anyway.

Just worried that no one here will care anymore or thinks I'm a jerk for filing! I know it's not what this site is about, but I truly believe that I have and continue to give this my best effort with the information and tools I have at my disposal.

Well regardless of what anyone thinks about it, I'll continue to post here and let everyone know where I am in the process and how things are going. It may get rather quiet after next week, just because I don't intend to have any contact with W after the car is transferred until the 90 day divorce deadline.

Hope you will all continue to offer your support, even if you don't agree with my filing this week, stick with me!

And I'm still up for suggestions on some good, non-pressuring ways for W to still know she can talk about reconciliation with me during this process if she has a change of heart, as doubtful as I am about it it's always possible.

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I'll bring the MB 2x4 that will give us plenty of crackers (upside the head)...this is the best pity party I've ever been to.

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What the? Are you leaving the party so soon? Oh well at least I go all the party food on hand for the next pity party.

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Yeah, I don't need pity...Guess I just craved love and attention for a minute. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Awwwww.... you know we love ya, ALS... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Hey Coffee Dude, ya got any chocolate in those leftovers? Goes great with red whine.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by cerri:
<strong>Hey Coffee Dude, ya got any chocolate in those leftovers? Goes great with red whine.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

C</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yep in fact I've got all kinds, dark chocolate(my favorite), milk chocolate, white chocolate, etc. and if you don't want to get your hands all full of chocolate, I can throw in some M&M's. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Hey Cerri, is an intense craving for chocolate an EN? Mrs TMCM would divorce me if I ran out of it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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Oh man, don't tempt Cerri with M&M's!

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Chocolate? Did someone say Chocolate? Where is the chocolate? Mmmm.... I can taste the calories already! I wonder if this is like virtual wedding cake, No calories or fat? Mmmm, that would be the best chocolate ever!!!!

Mmmmm <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Yikes all the women are coming out the woodwork. Help! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Oh Noooo!!!!! I had to leave and take the kids to their important social events... and Imready ate all the chocolate.....

And yes, chocolate is definitely an EN.... The way to a woman's heart, conversation and chocolate! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Cerri can chocolate be used as part of Plan A as a tool to negotiate an end to an A? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Talk about chocolate and I get so giddy I post twice. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

<small>[ June 11, 2003, 10:10 AM: Message edited by: cerri ]</small>

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by T00MuchCoffeeMan:
<strong>Cerri can chocolate be used as part of Plan A as a tool to negotiate an end to an A? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Heavens yes!!!! Little gifts to wife as an act of affection... oh yeah.... I often have men schedule those kinds of things into their calendars.

Chocolate is not called the "food of the gods" for nothing... it is a mult-purpose elixir! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Awwww...You guys have me wishing I had someone to give chocolate to now!

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Me me me!!! *star waving wildly* But I guess you didn't mean anybody huh? You meant someone <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

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I really should send you all a chocolate bar for all the help you have given me over these past months, you deserve all that and more.

Plus, you all got me in a chocolate mood with all this talk so when I was at the grocery store over my lunch hour today I had to pick up a pack of Hershey bars that were on sale. Thanks a LOT! I just ate half of one.

But yeah, in a way it makes me sad too, to not have a wife to give chocolate to or buy flowers for and stuff anymore. Regardless of how things turn out in the end, I hope I have someone special to do those things for again someday soon.

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You bought a PACK of Hershey bars and you ate HALF of ONE???

I think that sums up the difference between men and women better than any words I could utter.... or type. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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