My H just had a fit over a site I asked him about in history trail. Big blow up! Says he is doing nothing wrong and I should trust.
WEll, from Juniper and our past here at home, you can see why you can't trust. EVER!
Now mine had son erase history trail today so there is none to see. We had an agreement, leaving history trail so I could check anytime. so my next move is to install spyware!
If you've nothing to hide, you hide nothing.
anyhow, told him when our agreement is breached such as erasing history trail, I will file when I can do so in my own funds and position.
I refuse to be put back in position I once was or twice was!
Three strikes law here in CA. is my rule now.
I truly believe, once a liar, always a liar.
Good luck to you Juniper. You have great strentgh because by now I'd have had those letters shoved where the sun don't shine!But I have no patience anymore, since I seem to keep getting the short end of the stick. Bad temper too.
LOuLou

LouLou,

Here is my rule of thumb, NEVER accuse unless you have evidence in hand and never let him know you check. It is a huge lovebuster. That is why I put spyware on my DH's computer. He can't get defensive about what he doesn't KNOW. And I would never bring anything up unless I had evidence.

He doesn't know that I snoop on him occasionally. If he did, he would just cover his tracks and I wouldn't find out the truth anyway if he had something to hide. This way, I know he is truthful because I can see with my own eyes and I know he doesn't know so he has nothing to hide. It has saved my marriage and I even turned the spyware OFF a year ago!