Let's compare our timeframes from D-day to the present.

Did it, done it, UP we go! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I did it, 0 to 6 mo is long time frame gap, I wonder if any others had things move at lightning speed. Also wonder if those that didnt hear that WS were "in love" with OP but were given the ILYBNILWY thing. Also I know my H did think he was in love with OP just never told me this.

Anyway thanks for doing, it is always interesting to see the results. Hope more will take.

Yeah, 0-6 months is a large range. I found evidence of the A, next week she wanted the separation and I (stupidly) moved out. She filed one month later, and it will be over next week after a total of 4 months. She never actually admitted to an A, even though I have evidence and witnesses, as well as knowledge of her confession to others.

Since the title of this survey/thread said "for the WS and BS," I took the survey, but the wording of a couple of the questions was aimed at the BS, so here's a little clarification on my answers:]

For question 4: As the FWS, I never said I was in love with the OP. In fact, when the OP said that to me, it was like a flash of lightening that woke me up and told me I was way out in no man's land doing the absolute wrong thing and that it had to end. I was not in love with the OP. I think that I just enjoyed the attention that he showered me with.

For question 6: As the FWS that my BS was not interested in reconciling with, and whose BS was in at least an EA before and after d-day (which coincided with the end of my A), I attempted to plan A my H (the BS)- sort of a reverse plan A. (Hope that makes sense!)

The survey results are interesting so far!

Jen