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I for one am sick of all this mushy lovey dovey...happy whooo-hooooo posting of yours...
would you please stop...
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

If I even have to clarify that statment for real someone please just shoot me...end this misery...

so happy for you...
I understand the break...but know how much your story is needed around here...
you offer hope to those who feel none...

why wouldn't you name the puppy ark?... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

blessings to you and yours...

ARK\

threadjack..waves to ms. martin and hopes she is well.....

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Hopeful... Ark doesn't know how much he is right.. I have given up on my marriage and was just coming on here to tell everyone goodbye and thank you... and then I read your post.

I have never posted to you but have read alot of your post.. I am so very happy for you... Thank you for telling all of us about it.. It has renewed my faith and hope and I am going to give my marriage another shot.. or at least keep trying from my end.. Thank you again.. and good luck to your family. L&C

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uh oh...
there's that HE word again.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

lostandconfused...hope you are well...
please don't just give up...


you have to stick around so I can prove I am not a he.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
just ask me about jello recipes...

ark..definitly from venius....

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HP, That is really wonderful! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Very happy for you! All the things you've learned, ways you've grown, etc. during this time of your separation... keep applying those things and growing. May your "new" marriage be blessed beyond your imagination!!

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What a fabulous, fabulous story, that made me cry, it was so touching.

It has also made me very very frightened that I won't achieve what Hopeful Person did, but I am trying my very hardest.

I know that Hopeful Person does not post here anymore, but I know that she is having a lovely life with her H and children out there somewhere.

What a lady.


Me WW: 34
BH/WH: 36
Married 3 years
Together 9 years
DDay: 3/10
NC: 7/100
Plan B
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I agree, Hitch, that was beautiful...I so want to be there...I think I am in the same boat as you, terrified that I won't ever make it. There's proof it CAN and DOES happen. I hope it happens for us too.

Originally Posted by Hitch2007
I know that Hopeful Person does not post here anymore, but I know that she is having a lovely life with her H and children out there somewhere.

What a lady.


I second that.


FWW

"Snow and adolescence are the only problems that disappear if you ignore them long enough." ~ Earl Wilson
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Can anybody summarize (or point me to the initial thread of HopefulPerson)?
I am confused...she divorced and now they are re-marrying..that much I got.
But for how long where they D? Was she on plan B?
Thank you and blessing


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Originally Posted by atena
Can anybody summarize (or point me to the initial thread of HopefulPerson)?
I am confused...she divorced and now they are re-marrying..that much I got.
But for how long where they D? Was she on plan B?
Thank you and blessing

here is where her story began. To get the rest of her story click on her name and then scroll down to where it says view posts.

http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/u...;Main=68655&Number=735471#Post735471


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Hi

The story is over several threads which takes some time but if you click on Hopeful Person, then view posts, and go to the very first post made, there you can follow the story.

It took about 1.5 years for HP to rebuild with many, many rejections from her H.

Hitch


Me WW: 34
BH/WH: 36
Married 3 years
Together 9 years
DDay: 3/10
NC: 7/100
Plan B
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