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Her meanness towards you could be an attempt by her to justify to herself why she is having an affair. A great many WS demonize the BS and she is just one of those that does. Try not to respond in kind because it will just be adding more fuel to the fire.
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chris </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You need to get the children to live with you </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">the kids are fine she is doing well with them now.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">but as long as wife works with this guy will the affair end. om is buying wife gifts and tell her he is going to buy her a car. my 15d told me this. thanks ark. </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">how will i know when the other man is out picture she works with him. just keep being nice <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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the kids are fine she is doing well with them now.
Why are they fine? It's good to teach them it's okay to have a boyfriend and be married?
Why don't you want to get them?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> [QUOTE] Why are they fine? It's good to teach them it's okay to have a boyfriend and be married? Why don't you want to get them? [QUOTE] </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">i live with family and there is not enough room here for my kids. they go to very good schools where they live. and no its not okay to have a boyfriend and be married. my 15 old d knows but here mom tells her that iam lieing. my younger kids dont know. i went to see kids yestaday wife would not let me see them when she get mad she does this. will going to court to get visitation will that be lb. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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how long sould i stay in planA. my wife just makes me mad.
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will going to court to get visitation will that be lb.
It doesn't matter if it is a lovebuster or not.
It is the right thing to do to get CUSTODY, not just visitation.
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It is the right thing to do to get CUSTODY, not just visitation. </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">. i went to file for custody and visitation. wife affair is still going on everyone knows. her sister tells her that we are not together and that it is find to be with someone else that is nuts. i just found out the om wife divore him and he lives with his parents what a loser. wife will not tell me anything all i want is my kids. i about to give up on her she is in foggy land. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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i went to file for custody and visitation.
What did you do?
Did you get a lawyer?
Did you file papers?
Did you just think about doing this or what?
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