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OK folks, old Auto did a bit of old fashioned data gathering. Nothing sneaky or disreputable, I just made a few phone calls and asked to speak to OM. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Dr. H obviously knows his stuff. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> My WW's apartment is a LOVENEST and not a place to reflect on her life and our marriage. How do I know this? My simple phone calls to a few places I know they like to visit showed that OM was in town for most of a week. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Less than two weeks after WW moves out, OM arrives in her town and spends most of the week with her. And I can assure you he did not rent a hotel room for the entire time he was there. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />
WW calls me yesterday to talk about our son as she has not heard from him for a while (He won't talk to his mom. ) Of course, she conveniently forgets to mention that OM was with her and that she took vacation days durring that week. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> To compound the guilt, last December she refused to take a few days off with me to visit some friends saying she did not have much vacation time left. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I guess I know how she planned to use that valuable vacation time. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
An illusions I might have clung to regarding my WW's intentions towards our marrage are pretty much destroyed. Now, I just sit back and let things play out between OM and WW. In the words of Kahn in Star Trek 2 "Let them eat static".
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