When i first read about Plan A...i thought i knew what it really is...and i thought i was doing a great Plan A. But read again...plan A is special.

From my experience it is supposed to open your eyes and then you can go easily into Plan B. Plan A is supposed to make you stronger for Plan B.

You have to make your own list of dos and don't in Plan A...u can see the list i copied here...

the list

Plan A is to give and give and give. So unless you are doing all those listed in Plan A list then you still have NOT done a good Plan A...you don't have to do Plan A for 3 months. I lasted less than 3 weeks doing Plan A following the list.

By the end of my plan A i knew i had to do Plan B.

I have been doing plan A... but it helps to see it in writing and reaffirm. And great advice on seeing as a plan against OW to beat her at her own game.... I never saw it that way... I will do that for sure.... thanks!!!

Well I am not going to sit around all day today waiting for you to invite me over tonight like I did yesterday. When you are at the store why dont you get one of those box pizza's and we can have that for dinner. The one you made last week was very very good. By the way I am inviting myself over tonight. I will pick Sissy up for soccer and come back for dinner tonight. Why dont you pick up another dvd while you are out today too? I am not going to be able to make your appointment today. But I have decided after alot of thought yesterday I do want to go and meet with her and talk to her. So why dont you make an appointment for me for next Thursday afternoon? Let me know.


I just got this email from my WS.... I took your advice I didn't call or ask last night pep... what now? Get the pizza and movie and have a great night or tell him I have made plans (which btw I haven't any).... the appt he is referring to is a MC, that's optimistic, but he's told me stuff like that before so I dunno.... HELP!!!!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I have this urge to go out and date, I want to be desired and feel like a woman again. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I know how you feel I go back and forth from feeling like I don't deserve all this c*** and knowing I can find someone who loves me. But then I realize that it isn't just me involved here. This is my son's family too. No one can take the place of his father. He is worth my every effort to make it work. He deserves to have his family intact. I don't want him to grow up the product of divorce. I will do everything in my power to save my marriage, not only because I still love my H, but because I owe it to my S to try.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I hope Plan B works for you.... if you send me your email I will email you some articles I found on the internet, </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Me too. I wish it hadn't come to that. I want to send you my email, but I'm not sure how to do it without everyone seeing. I need to maintain some sort of anonymity and my email address has my name in it. Does anyone know how to do this?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Your WS must be crazy not to see all of your beauty... I see it and I have only started talking to you today... </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">They are in a fog, Heavenlee, and cannot see two feet in front of them. Your beauty shines too. I hope your H sees it. Just stick to plan A a little longer. Your H wants to at least make an effort. Mine seems done, through, finished.

Nid,

My email is heavenlee30@yahoo.com

So you can send yours there and I won't share it with a soul... I promise. Huggs and good luck. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />