Hopeful,

I am sorry you didn't get any support from your FIL.I have been blessed to have a VERY supportive in-law family all around.They even went so far as to tell me in the beginning of this ordeal that the homewrecker would never be welcomed into the home/family.They also told WH that.

So,I could not have been happier about that.It is the only thing that pulled me through some of those dark days,knowing that the homewrecker might end up with MY husband one day but that if she thought she could ingratiate herself into my place over time,she has another thing coming.

One other thing,remember that it's not how the OW/OM looks to our WS's but rather how they make them FEEL.There's your answer,or at least part of it.

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I know it is how they make them feel. I remember when I could make my H feel that way. It is just a shame that he never told me that I didn't anymore, and he went elsewhere. It would certainly have been easier if he had told me he didn't want to be with me anymore, than hurt me so badly. I am still very very hurt by all of this. I don't ever think it would be possible to recover with him if he ever wanted to. I can't even look at him. That is why Plan B is so good for me. I don't know how he looks at me. He such a different person than he was six months ago. I wonder if he will stay a liar and deceiver or if he will ever become himself again. He told me he could never cheat on OW. That made me feel pretty bad considering I am the one who has been here for him not her. There is just a part of me that hates him so much. I am sure you know what I mean.

NY