Durham, I am so sorry you are giogn thru this. I know that your dreams are all shattering in front of you and that you WANT so badly to do all the stuff that you are SUPPOSED to be doing together during this time with the baby coming. You need to pull yourself together and take care of you and that baby. Forget your WH right now.

I would bet money that once you go into Plan B the reality of him not being able to be with HIS child will set in. I never did a Plan B, so take what I say with a grain of salt. As far as mowing the lawn, I would go ahead and hire someone and have your WH pay for it. Good luck to you!