Originally posted by ChristyV:

What he does not realize, is he is not really getting closer to keeping everything...he is getting closer to LOSING everything.

~~~*Bravo*~~~

This is the definition of Plan B in one simple sentence!

Supurb!

Pep

<small>[ May 14, 2004, 10:25 AM: Message edited by: Pepperband ]</small>

Click on that site Isgirl recommended.

It is good, and I think it will help you stay the course.
Sincerely, Julie

Isgirl,

I have seen that site posted and checked it out. Where do you go?

Durham, what do you mean when you asked Isgirl "where do you go?"

Did you get a chance to read what Isgirl's husband, Lost Bird, posted about plan B?
Love, Julie

Hi Durham,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I have seen that site posted and checked it out. Where do you go? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Click here: Save Your Marriage Central

Scroll all the way to the bottom, and click on

Enter The Village At SYMC.

There you can read posts, you can click on Register and set yourself up as a registered user just as you are here.

Is that what you mean?

durham -

We have another member who is pregnant - Betrayed Wife - please see if you can post to her. She is in the Just Found Out forum, and is 37 weeks pregnant. Thanks

I am reminding him of NC today.
NO CONTACT MEANS NO CONTACT!!!

When you contaqct hi to tell him to stop contacting you THAT IS CONTACT.
When you read his letters to you, THAT IS CONTACT!

UPDATE---

I just found out through a friend that the OW is moving in record speed with her D. She asked for a D the beginning of April and her court date is June 3. I know I should not be concerned with it but that is hard.
She has sold her home in two weeks. Has purchased another home and will be moving in July. My H will be helping her move. She has her son every other weekend and on Wednesdays. I don't know when my H will be meeting her son.
I know they are spending lots of time together. It drives me crazy and I just want to get a D. I can't imagine even trying to recover after all he has done to me.

Hey durham!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I know they are spending lots of time together. It drives me crazy... </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">try not to drive yourself crazy thinking about them! as a matter of fact, things between A-partners are often unhappy and conflict-ridden...or simply not based in reality...either way, not nearly the kind of happy-happy stuff most BS imagine!

try and find a way to deflect your thoughts about them if you can...do things to distract yourself or spend time with someone talking about other topics of conversation...

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> ...and I just want to get a D. I can't imagine even trying to recover after all he has done to me. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">well hon, it is early days yet...most of us couldn't imagine hanging in through the horror, humiliation and outright devastation...but here we are! happier than pigs in...well, you get the messy picture! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

listen to believer...she's learned so much about herself and loving life through this messy ordeal...

focus on YOU and your new baby (I am so excited for you!!!)...tell us about the nursery...

hang in there...awed