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#1145508 06/18/04 02:27 PM
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Just an update, I haven't heard much from WW. I ended up texting her the other day, telling her she had to call me. It was about going to the attorny's office to figure out what we can do for bankruptcy. She actually did call me back within 5 min. She seemed a liitle different. She was calm and collected. Didn't hear any cockiness in her voice. I was suprised at that because she was in his semi when she called. I was waiting to hear something stupid from GOD (OP), but didn't hear a word, nothing from him. Then she told me something I didn't think she would bother to tell me. She said that she had gotten fired from her job but didn't know why. I am sure it is all the time off of work she took. I asked if she was going to look for another job she said she had to. I replied with "I didn't know because I thought you would just go on the road with OP". She answered with a very clear "NO". I had all I could do to keep from laughing in her face. So I bit my tongue again and tried to be understanding and supportive. I do wonder if this will help lift the fog a little. I do have a question, Is it normal (not sure normal is right word) for the WS to give up everything they know and have just to be with OP? I mean now she has lost her job on top of everything else she has lost or given up on. Will reality catch up to her, or will she just keep going down this distructive path? I would imagine that if she did crash she would crash very hard. My mother, bless her heart, says that when she crashes it will be 10 times more painful to her than what I have gone through so far. I find this hard to believe because I now how bad that pain is. Any comments would be great.

#1145509 06/18/04 04:34 PM
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Read Dr. James Dobsons book, Love Must Be Tough. I think you'll greatly profit from it. It is somewhat similar to Dr. Harley's advice, but takes a little different turn. Good Book!

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