Thanks, I appreciate it. I will try to keep posting. I think things will get better. I think it has just been a bad week. Well, anyway it is bath time for our girls and dinner time on this side of the ocean so gotta run for now. If anyone has more comments I will try to check back after dinner. Thanks again.

Hey man, I know exactly where you are. My wife is having NC right now, but still pretty distant and cool towards me. It is an unbelievable hurt when you reach out to the one that you've trusted and loved for years to spurn you again and again. For the WW many times the hurt has come on for a long time and the feelings take a while to deteriorate for the BS. Then the A takes place and only galvanizes these feelings that they've developed over time. But for the BS many times the disaster happens in one day. One day everything is fine, the next moment all reality, truth, understanding, whole world is turned upside down and there is no future any more. It all makes sense to them, but to the BS it makes no sense at all.

Hang in there man! If you still love her and want to make it work, then stay strong. You're the only one that will make this thing work for right now. She is out to lunch emotionally, but you've got to hang there to keep hope alive in that M.