I guess there is enough fog to go around, eh?

Just prior to d-day OW wrote my husband the following: "I know how much you love (BS) and your kids....."

HUH?! Then get the hell out of our lives, would ya?

Another thing she told me after d-day was that she was "a person of honor. If I say I am going to do something then I do it."

Guess she forgot she (a married woman) was boinking a married man (so honorable). Also promised NC and broke that a million times. So trustworthy that one was.

Let see. Oh, yeah, how could I forget this one? "Do you mind if I hug WH? If I start to cry it will be very hard for WH not to comfort me with a hug." THIS, after I told WH to meet with her to get everything said and over with (before I found MB, obviously).

Sheesh.

Husband wouldn't touch her, didn't want to. She didn't ask any of the pressing questions she needed for "closure." Just wanted a hug cuz "that's how I treat all my friends." He didn't hug her. Just walked away.

I pointed out to her this was the ending of a disgusting sexual affair that threatened two families, not the mere evolution of a beautiful friendship.

She thought we could have been friends under different circumstances.

I could go on and on. But you get the idea. Blccchhhh.