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BB - You are doing okay. You can read about Plan A on the link in my signature line.

You need to slow down a little and have some patience. Come here for support. Lots of people have gone through the same thing with friends and family. They don't want to hear about it. Unless you have been through something like this, you can't understand.

Try to relax, and take good care of yourself. I know it is hard, but you really need to.

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BrokenByte,

I'm bumping this up to see how you're doing.

Can you please give us an update?

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well my w and what she know refers to asm her BF ;ied and made me sound like the lea;ous husband.
she refuses to end the affair.
she is trying to keep it a secret but is doing a horrible job.
i was able to get her to commit to see a marriage C. in a few weeks.
If she actually goes with me GREAT!
If not it just further proves what is happening.
She swears up and down they have no contact but flips out when i asked for a copy of her cell phone bill to PROVE she is not!
Come on, i saw him on her frequent calls list.
and does THIS look like thjey have stopped:
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**princesscheri'soncloudninetodayandverymuchinlove<sigh>**
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I know i am not who this is talking about!
I hate the lies upon lies.
She can only have one of us!!
Every lie i catch her in and asking over and over what i know is true and she lies again about it...
It is becoming unsurmountable.
We are planning to by that house soon.
If you asked me today if i would it would be NO WAY IN HE%%!
She promised she would not come back and read my posts here.
Lets see if she can keep that promise at least.
Unless she stops seeing him we never ever will be able to start fixing us. The longer she continues to lie and see him, the less and less i want to even want to. I dont know if I can even forgive her if she had stopped seeing him 2 weeks ago. I sure hope the marriage C. can at least help me out.

i will be back if she doesnt come back here to spy.
thanks again all

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