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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Tom Joad:
<strong> LOL 2long... but I doubt it. She's not the savy. Of course I thought she was alot less savy than she is. She had me tricked for awhile according to her. Of course, again, maybe I wanted to be tricked.... maybe I wanted to believe. Maybe she didn't trick me, I tricked myself. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">She may be on the road, but her OM could type whatever she wants into Cheffy's log-in. I'm believing you're being gaslighted.
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She sacastically says to me, "you don't even know these people, they're not your friends"
Do you have kids? How old are they?
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Hey Tom, that weekend that she left at 10 pm at night without warning and you had to work the next day...I really wanted to offer to watch your kids for you...since we also live in the Tampa Bay area.
But, alas, we don't really know each other in real life so that wouldn't have been appropriate. I felt so badly for you and your kids, but it was probably good that you were able to take off work and be there for your kids yourself.
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Trix, your right. But that really meant alot to me. Since then I have had several people make the same offer if she takes off again without notice. Well, a few days later she did tell me that her lawyer knew where she was. Of course, when I asked who her lawyer was she wouldn't tell me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> I guess maybe her attny could have taken care of the kids... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
Two kids, teen and near teen.
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KaylaAndi, I am pretty sure the OM is busy with his own life. The only games he wants to play include my WW. Probably not MB or the kids. It's all about them. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />
Cheffy is just trapped in that escapist fantasy I fear. Her H was probably completely oblivious.
<small>[ July 20, 2004, 09:10 PM: Message edited by: Tom Joad ]</small>
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