</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">pleae help........input is appreciated...
i had an affair and truely fell in love with this person...i want to start my life with him...but i'm scared to go through separation with my husband........i have 2 small children and ache over the thought of not being able to see them every day </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Read what you wrote. You have choices to make. What's most important to you? How will you make the NEXT choices that come along? What if it happens again? What if you have another affair and "truly" fall in love with someone else and start a new life with HIM? Is that REALLY the right way to make a decision for your life? Your children's lives?


These good people are letting you know that you have options. There are ways to keep your marriage together, and make it better. We can't predict YOUR future, but there is a HUGE chance that the pain of leaving your husband and children will be stronger than the "reward" of a "new life" with the "other man".