Thanks Jannie, I will inform my friend about the channel. I feel just as strongly as you about these clubs...and I also think much of it have to do with the attention these men getting from these girls. I think it's an ego-boost for them (althought they have to pay for it! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> ) I really hope me & hubby will in some way be able to help our friends. I pray for that.

Thanks for your interest and care. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Blessings,
Suzet

To those who still remember this thread, I just want to send you an update:

I’ve informed my friend about her H’s behavior the past weekend. It was the first time we visited them in three months time and I was looking for an opportunity to talk to her personally. My friend still has sexual problems in her M and hasn’t made any attempt yet to get professional help. I know this is a very big issue in their M. I was also hoping by informing her about her H’s past behavior (I don’t know if he still visiting this clubs, but he told my H he don’t) she would realize the seriousness of their problem and how this sexual problem in their M can make her H vulnerable to stray.

After we left for the weekend, my friend confronted her H. Initially her H was furious with us and he blamed my H for telling me in the first place, but we made it clear to him that me and my H don’t have an secrets between us and was both concerned about this thing. At first he tried to deny the truth to his W and pretend if my H was lying, but after I’ve talked to her on the phone yesterday I made it clear to her that her H is dishonest and trying to keep the truth from her. Later that day her H phoned us again, this time he said he realized that me and my H just wanted to help, that he don’t want to loose our friendship and that he will sort things out with his W. I was very surprised about his changed attitude.

Well, this was yesterday and I haven’t heard something from them yet. I really hope they will be okay and be able to sort this whole thing out. I hope on the long run this won’t have a negative impact on our friendship with them. Me and my H do care about both of them.

Suzet

Double post

<small>[ November 04, 2004, 06:58 AM: Message edited by: Suzet* ]</small>

i applaude you---you both did the right thing.