To those who still remember this thread, I just want to send you an update:
I’ve informed my friend about her H’s behavior the past weekend. It was the first time we visited them in three months time and I was looking for an opportunity to talk to her personally. My friend still has sexual problems in her M and hasn’t made any attempt yet to get professional help. I know this is a very big issue in their M. I was also hoping by informing her about her H’s past behavior (I don’t know if he still visiting this clubs, but he told my H he don’t) she would realize the seriousness of their problem and how this sexual problem in their M can make her H vulnerable to stray.
After we left for the weekend, my friend confronted her H. Initially her H was furious with us and he blamed my H for telling me in the first place, but we made it clear to him that me and my H don’t have an secrets between us and was both concerned about this thing. At first he tried to deny the truth to his W and pretend if my H was lying, but after I’ve talked to her on the phone yesterday I made it clear to her that her H is dishonest and trying to keep the truth from her. Later that day her H phoned us again, this time he said he realized that me and my H just wanted to help, that he don’t want to loose our friendship and that he will sort things out with his W. I was very surprised about his changed attitude.
Well, this was yesterday and I haven’t heard something from them yet. I really hope they will be okay and be able to sort this whole thing out. I hope on the long run this won’t have a negative impact on our friendship with them. Me and my H do care about both of them.
Suzet
