Hey guys, there are a lot of you on here, and us women are trying to help you. Please come here, and then you will all be in one place. That way you can help each other, and the ladies will have you all together.

<small>[ August 07, 2004, 12:37 PM: Message edited by: believer ]</small>

Uh, I'm here.
(looks down, kicks ground)

Betrayed Husbands?

that would be me.....
put me on the list

I prefer the term "marital remission"

Also looking down, avoiding eye contact with GC.

Oh yeah, cool pic on the hog Believer.

Still no eye contact.

Welcome. I feel a need to get you all in one place, cuz there are so many of you right now. Hopefully the ladies here will give some advice. Especially hoping to hear from the experts.

Don't know what I can say to help you guys. But seeing what admirable Husbands you are gives me hope that there are still a few good guys out there.

Kloe, try telling that to my wife. She seems to prefer bad husbands.

Yes kloe - These are the good guys. The guys our mothers always hoped that we would marry.

Now we have men from Florida, Canada, New Zealand, Texas, and where else?

Where is frankd and purebob?

Minnasoaduh.

I'm confused... what's the point here?

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Okay ladies, here's a question.

You cheat on your husband, leave him, and tell him you want a divorce. You have a meeting where you come to an agreement about money. In that meeting you call your husband a wise, incredible man, and you cannot hide your confusion.

A few days later, your husband sends you a check, and in the envelope is a cool postcard with a nice little message on the back.

A week goes by and you have him served w/D papers.

Three days later, on your 10th anniversary, he sends you a beautiful vase of orchids with a cool card with another nice little message.

A few days after that you receive another check in the mail, in another nice card, with another nice message in it.

Do you feel anything???

GC

Oh K, I am trying to get all of the Betrayed Husbands here. The board is so busy, often people get overlooked. I thought if we had them all right here, it would be easier. Please help.

Thanks for doing this Believer
I could sure use the support and suggestions

I never thought Maryland could get so cold this time of year..go figure <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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T (Washington State)

<small>[ August 05, 2004, 08:39 PM: Message edited by: Thos ]</small>

FM, you feelin' awright?

graycloud - I would love my WH to do something like that. But I am not a WW. We'll have to wait to hear from some.

Here is another question. You men are doing so well by trying to hold on to your marriages. Do any of you have a deadline?

Also how do you deal with the lack of SF?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by graycloud:
<strong> FM, you feelin' awright? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Nope,

hey you asked.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

GC How about you?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by believer:
<strong>
Here is another question. You men are doing so well by trying to hold on to your marriages. Do any of you have a deadline?

Also how do you deal with the lack of SF? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">YES, my deadline was yesterday...but seriously I set a date of August 13th as official FM Dark Day, it's significant because it's my B-Day and there's a mental cut off point.

SF? What's that? Oh yeah <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> One things for sure I think it's best for me to just dive into doing daddy things with the kids. Other women are looking better and better each day, but I know it will only complicate family matter lol.
Not to mention it will let her off the hook morally and we can't have that can we?

more liked dumpped spouse.........He everyone.....PC is slow tonight........Like my wifes affair is ending.........

FM, I feel like hell too. Every day I hope to hear from her, and every day I'm disappointed.

My deadline is my 11th anniversary, July 29, 2005. If all goes according to the sparrow's plan, I'll be six months divorced by then and almost 35.

Lack of SF? The usual methods. Lexapro makes it less necessary. I am checking out women like a freak though. Saturday I'm going to an art fair with OMW (and another friend - our boundaries are secure), and by the end of the day my neck is going to be sore. It's August and there will be thousands and thousands of women walking around.

GC