Okay, I'll take that out. You know, he does test me a lot now that you mention that. It was about two weeks ago that the "I'm moving out" thing came up (again) and a week later, he brings it up and asks, "Do you still want me out?" or another time he said, "Are you changing your mind about me moving out?" Each time I stuck to my guns that if he isn't committed, then he needs to go. Then a couple days ago, he asked, "Well, what do you think about our finances and me moving out? Are we going to be able to do it?" I said, "If your staying here only because its convenient and we'll have a financial burden, then you still need to go. We will have to suffer the consequences financially."

He's been in Chicago for 3 days, and I am not the one initiating any phone calls. I'm doing fine when I don't talk to him. Its after I speak to him that I start feeling like crap again. I think Plan B is going to be great for me.

I think Plan B will be great for you too. When he is moving out?

No exact day. He comes back from Chicago tomorrow. I want him to find an apt. by this weekend. We'll discuss it all I suppose tomorrow night. If he doesn't think its feesible financially this month, then I'll tell him he needs to go to his mom's until he can afford it. He can come to the house during the day since I'll be back at school and he can use his office (he works from home a lot). I'll just tell him to be sure he's gone by the time I get home. How does that sound?