Eyes: No "thanks" necessary. (I'm gonna tell ya a secret--don't let the perverbial cat out of the bag, though, OK?..."Helping" people is just as theraputic as getting advice! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> So, "NO, no, no....Thank *YOU*!")
Anytime, Eyes...I'm glad I could help in some way! You just take care of you and yours for now, K? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

PS--where are you with that kind of TZ difference????

Best wishes and blessings!

Liny, sorry to hear about your Uncle. hope your Aunt is going to be OK. Were they elderly? When someone I now passes over I always think of this. It may help: "What seems to us a sunset ...... is a sunrise in another land".
My H has started asking me if I have been on this site. I just say yes & then he asks "are you alright" & again I just say yes. He has asked what has been said about him (I showed him what I wrote in my story - 9 months today), but I haven't told him yet. I think he is worried to some degree. I haven't showed him any replies yet, but I know when he has finished this project he will ask to see them. I hope he "listens" to what you have all told me. I have nothing to hide. so I don't mind him reading anything I have said.
Liny, I am an Australian & live Down Under ..... Great place to live (except for the drought we have at the moment) All that rain in Florida & nothing for us. Saw on the news today the devestation over there & can only hope that they can all recover. In our thoughts & prayers. It's funny, but after what has been going on in my life at the moment, I realise that nothing is as important as family & their well being. Actually I have always know this, but not sure about H. Everything else can be replaced, even if it's not exactly the same.

WH 52
BS 48
DD 24
DS 22

H had several A's over 10 yrs
Working at staying together forever

Eyes...Thanks...No...he was actually a year younger (I'm pretty sure) than when my Dad passed--Dad was 59. My aunt seems to be, well, numb. Lived outside of Boston...gotta go in work tonight then head off tommorrow. It will probably be a huge to-do: Uncle was not only a member of the National Guard, but also a chaplain. He was also chaplain for MA state police. Haven't spoken to my cousins yet, but, I am sure the one phrase that will be repeated over and over is, "It just sucks. Not for him--he's better off. For us."