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I don't know how long I can do this. I don't know if I can love him the same after knowing that his heart is somewhere else. He says he loves me but not like a husband should. Will time away from me make him realize what he's doing is wrong or just give him more time to be with OW?
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TR his heart isn't somewhere else, his brain is.
Plan B will make him realise where is heart really lies.
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TREEEEEEEEE {{{{{{hugs baby}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I think your actually in a better position than i am . You H is away and he is face to face with life without you and your son. He is dealing with it head on. My WW is home getting her cake and eating it too. She is still in her fantasy of having everything.
your relationship is a leap year ahead of mine and i truly think your H fog will ift soon....you have to keep you head up and keep painting......
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Bob. I guess I should try to look at it that way. It just hurts so deeply that he could just throw away what we once had.
JAH....I guess that is why plan B works....you get away from the daily hurt (in some way) and don't have to see WS. I do feel for you that you are having to see her everyday and go through all the pain non-stop. I'm hoping that plan B will work for me as well as my H. I just don't understand how he can go through each day not seeing our son. I could never do that. I hope the fogs lifts for all of our WS soon. We've been married for 14 yrs. How can he just give up on that? I will never understand!!!!
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Tree - You are beautiful, and look just like Lady Diana. You will do just fine, sweetie.
Bob - I'm a deadhead. Get me a shirt when you go.
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believer....I get that all the time ( look like Princess Di). Thank you!
I know that I can find someone else but I want my H. Why do I have to have such a good heart and be so loyal? Sometimes I think it's a curse!!!!
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