I took my wife out to dinner last night and had a good time. During our diner she asked me how many people I have told about our situation and I told her just 1 guy at the shop. She asked why did you tell him and I said because he has been through what I am going through. She then asked about a good buudy of mine who she told. She asked what did he say and I told her he said "if they don't want to be with us then F*** em". She then hinted at what I was going to do about buying a car as if she won't be here. I was calm and didn't persue the conversation last night but feel I must question her this weekend about leaving. I think she is wavering but I could be wrong. The daughter's letter to her should be here today or tomorrow and I feel she will have her feelings hurt by what our daughter will say to her. Daughter is to tell it like she feels. So I may be in for a rocky weekend. I will remain cool and calm.