Thanks GC

I feel better tonight and will not respond to him if he calls me again. I will take care of one task for him that I had already promised, then that is it.

This will be so hard. He has his way of getting to me. Let him sweat a little. No fair to have two women meeting your needs. I just try to remember all of the things he has done to hurt me and it helps me to keep me in Plan B. Doing this sh*t to a pregnant wife has been soooooo awful. I remember him practically running from the delivery room before our new D was even weighed so that he could avoid my family AND HE MISSED WATCHING THE 2 BOYS MEETING THEIR NEW SISTER! Can you say d*ckhead???

Love for him is not a factor anymore. I hate to say this, it is so weird to feel this way. I'm guessing it's pretty normal.

Hey there WAID,

You know,it's kind of funny that you spoke of the 99999 to signal an emergency from your WH as a tactic to get you to talk.My WH did the same thing when I went into Plan B by typing in big bold letters "EMERGENCY" on his e-mails because I had told him at that point that I wasn't even going to e-mail him anymore since he was using bogus statements to try and get me to contact him.This was also after I cut off all phone contact by keeping the answering machine on at all times.LOL.It worked.

Of course now he is home and getting all sorts of fixes from me too being here. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> I try to avoid him and leave to go out with the girls or my mom,etc but it doesn't help matters when we are together.We are D'ing anyway so I am just trying to be calm and dignified through it all.It still sux though.I mentioned to him to go stay with the homewrecker but it seems that maybe he is bored up there where she is and she doesn't have all this spare time for him and a place to stay nor does he have any money.Oh well.Too bad. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Sounds like you are doing A OK.Plan B will be a restful place for you.Don't let your WH breach your plan though,that will set you back.

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Yeah, he is leaving me messages all the time. He fell asleep the other night and of course did not sleep in the car. NO SURPRISE!!!!

I did have to leave him a message from a mutual friend, and so I added in about how him not sleeping in the car was an example of his inaction and that if he really does miss us, he will have to start DOING something about it.

OK, dark again. He is not coming home this weekend, si I'm hanging with the kids and going to do some fall-fest type of stuff. Vermont's leaves are changing, and they are soooooo beautiful!!!