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Re: Dreading tomorrow.....
#1191546 09/30/04 11:12 PM
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parkem...I want to make it clear that i am not advocating d...you obviously want to be M with your W...but maybe this would open her eyes a bit...it was just a thought...just choose your options wisely...how long have you been plan a'ing? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
Seriously, though, how is she "taking" to your plan a?
Re: Dreading tomorrow.....
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LINY - I have been plan a'ing to the best of my ability, which sometimes isn't that good, for about 3 months. Her reaction to it has been suspiscion because she says I am being nice just because I want her back. I am not sure if filing would wake her up or relieve her of her guilt because then she wouldn't have to be the one to do it.
Re: Dreading tomorrow.....
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Yeah...I realized that after I posted too...which is why I added the "disclaimer"...

Please excuse the analogy, but, reading here, it seems like most WS act like [censored] (me included) or b!tches. Seems like your WW is just toying with you--but straddling the fence ever so gingerly--any sudden move might sway her one way or the other. I guess it was my impatience--for you--coming out.

Optimistically, your halfway at the "average" timeframe! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
Re: Dreading tomorrow.....
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Yeah I am defiantley feeling impatient but trying to keep that under control. I do feel like she is toying with me, but have not felt at all like she is fence straddling. I think she would be relieved if I filed. Her guilt would be absolved and I would be the bad guy for filing.
Re: Dreading tomorrow.....
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Well, the meeting with my W that was cancelled last week has now been rescheduled for today. That is if she doesn't cancel on me again at the last minute. Would it be wrong to just throw all conventioal MB advice out the window and just jump her bones? Sorry, maddyk's libido topic has got me all worked up.
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