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Bob Pure,
I wish I had your strength and Faith.
I look forward to seeing what you post on all your thoughts of faith and what you did right verses what you may have done wrong.
I feel like my Plan A is weak and flimsy at best.
Not even sure if I really do have a Plan A
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Bob,
I'm doing the best I can. I can truly say that I am amazed at my own strength. I have faith in God that the path I have taken will lead me to a better life. It's not the path I wanted to take but It's what I've been dealt.
Thanks for being there when I was so low...I never thought I would be where I am today. Thanks to everyone on this board..I am a stronger person.
I really am so happy that you were able to save your marriage and get your WW back. She's lucky to have you!
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Bob,
Great post. Good for you both! Couldn't have happen to a nicer chap.
It was very interesting to see the chronilogical progression of Squid's thinking.
It would be interesting to see if other FWWs here would agree.
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Double,
sorry
<small>[ December 06, 2004, 03:18 PM: Message edited by: krusht ]</small>
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Mschluter:
<strong> Bob Pure,
I wish I had your strength and Faith.
I look forward to seeing what you post on all your thoughts of faith and what you did right verses what you may have done wrong.
I feel like my Plan A is weak and flimsy at best.
Not even sure if I really do have a Plan A </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Michael I DIDN'T HAVE any strength or faith when I was at your stage of the affair !!!
I didn;t write a suicide letter I actually DRIVE AT A TREE while out of my head on pills and wine.
Yet when I had no pride left God gave me the mustard seed of faith I needed to be what my family needed. The folk on here guided me. Dr Harley's books informed me.
And I got strength and faith. There was some random stuff that happened too ( Like OMs estranged son dying - that reinforced NC from HIS side). But Its about YOU right now, recover YOU first so you have a stone upon which to build another. And when you despair give it up to God. What you got to lose ?
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triple, (don't know how I did that)
sorry
<small>[ December 06, 2004, 03:20 PM: Message edited by: krusht ]</small>
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Bob Pure,
When you find the time could we talk on on Yahoo..
mschluter2002
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I could use the 2x4 real soon
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Michael
I am an AIM user (impurebob), but I'll install yahoo ASAP and ping U.
Stay strong . U can do this. u WILL do this.
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Bob- As a Junior Member just starting my Plan A with my WW, you are such an inspiration. Your posts, stories, and advice give me hope that this does work. Just by reading your posts, I can see that it IS possible to get closer to the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for all of the advice that you have given me. It truly comes from a caring person. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> - DKelly
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I guess there's not much I can say Bob that hasn't been said by many others here. I too gain hope from you. One thing you posted was:
BP:Yet when I had no pride left God gave me the mustard seed of faith I needed to be what my family needed.
I just got done praying this exact scripture tonight. I have been praying every night and will continue to do so, until my mustard seed finally grows!
I'm so happy for you!
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