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I look froward to the day when I don't care about him anymore.
So do I!!!
If there is one WS I dislike, it is he. He is mean and manipulative, fog my @ss.
Do not let him goad you into anymore conversations. He knows just what to say to push your buttons and upset you.
I am sorry MB, but this guy is manipulative and cruel.
Tree you stay off of the phone with him, do everything through your lawyer or an intermediary of some sort, OK?
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A/C0810...thank you. I do believe what goes around comes around. I think any man who can do this kind of stuff to their wife isn't capable of loving anyone. The OW thinks she will change him....NOT! She's known him for a year and I've been with him for 17.....they are both just trying to justify what they are doing and know it's wrong.
weaver....yes...he is manipulative and cruel. He gets that honestly...from his mom. He's acting just like her and she is definitely in need of some serious therapy.
I am planning on staying away from him and not having anymore conversations with him.
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{{{{{tree}}}}}
i havent been posting for awhile, but i am so sorry to hear of your wh's actions.i think everyone here is right. take care of you, dont talk to him, and concentrate on getting this man out of your life. fog??? NOT!! i agree with you also. she isnt going to change him.the worst thing you can do to him is to get on with your life, find someone who deserves you, and be happy. remember, their whole relationship is founded on lies and the pain of others. do you really think it stands a snowballs chance in hell? i think not.be happy tree, and take care of you and that adorable son of yours.
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Thank you shelly_3!
I do want him out of my life. It's so sad that all of this has happened. I never thought he would turn out like this. I was happy being married and being a mom. It's all so confusing to me.
I know I will find a good man one day and be happy again. I do deserve that and so does my son. I have always been a faithful and loving wife. I will not let this ruin who I am.
Thank you all for the support and kind words.
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{{{{{{{{Tree & son}}}}}}}}
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