My goodness. Could he be more irritating if he TRIED?
He's on the move. The truck was fixed with money he had in his own account...it was much cheaper than he thought it would be. He had left a message that he would be staying there (it's Yreka, not Eureka....my bad!) overnight since the truck wouldn't be fixed until the end of the day.
It wasn't true. Hard to believe, and yet it is so. When he left that message he would have been getting out of town.
I found out because I found the account number to this oh-so-secret-account. I called and said I was him. WH has a pretty masculine Spanish name and the guy on the other line questioned it really being him. He asked me twice, "Any your Mr. FIM?"
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> YEP! I sure am.
They check your identiy with a social security number and birthday....both of which I had so they had no choice but to help me. hehe.
Well, he got gas in Redding and Dunnigan, California.
Dumba$$. He ALWAYS gets caught. Why even do this to himself. Dork.
So, I called. I shouldn't have, but I did.
He admitted it....after trying to act dumb. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Says he's NOT going to see OW. He's heading to SAT where he will get his stuff from her since she'll be back there by then. Then, he thinks he's going to head home because his little experiment is proving true.
He's longing for me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
If I keep rolling my eyes like this, they're gonna get stuck. It'll be HIS fault too!
He really thinks that his taking this time to himself...including going to SAT....is something I'll eventually think is good. It'll HELP our marriage in the end. He's going to get so much out of this.
He needs it because....
He's the broken one.
He's the volitile one.
He's the confused one.
He's the one who has been questioning our R.
Whew!! So glad he told me that. I've been thinking
I was the one feeling that way. Now I know I don't have to because he is.
Broken! I'd like to show him broken! And he hasn't seen volitile yet!
Anyway, he says that he super-dee-duper misses me and is getting so much clarity from this LONGING he's feeling. He really feels that he's on the right track.
Seeing OW in SAT will give him CLOSURE. He's only going to see her to get his stuff. And say goodbye.
Don't forget, he's LONGING for me now. He KNOWS seeing her won't change anything. He'll be in and out before anything can happen.
Prize for FIM..I didn't take the bait on the in and out statement. It was just too damn easy to run with it.
And although he knows he's lied and I have no reason to believe him, he'll show me and prove to me how good this idea of his is in the long run. When he comes home he knows he'll be the kind of man he can be proud to be. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
He knows this because he's LONGING for me right now. He is so proud to have me for his wife. The best thing he ever did was have the divorce dismissed.
I hope that the sarcasm that is lacing my voice is coming through here.
This is just about funny, really. I had a feeling about it. That's why I checked it. I called her hotel and she's there in Phoenix. No way he's making it there tonight. She sounded pretty bad, like she'd been crying. Her voicemails, yeah I checked that too again, are still whiny and crying too. He's not answering and she's not happy. She also seems to think he's supposed to already be there and is worried because he's running so late.
I do believe he hasn't told her he's not coming.
Is it odd that I'm more amused by his antics than anything else? There are other emotions too, but not nearly as strong as that.
I've decided to stop looking. I'm staying dark this time. When I found out he was on the go again I wanted to bust him. I'm not going to put myself in that position again.
He does need to figure this out. He KNOWS the answer. He needs to find his way out of the dark by himself though. We'll see what happens then.
