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Re: The lastest from Welderboy...
#1210539 10/28/04 07:55 PM
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Prayers granted <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Are you doing what you need to do regarding being sure that W is actually doing and going the places she says she is?
Re: The lastest from Welderboy...
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Such as?...Alot of times I still have to rely on what ever bit of trust I have. Thanks for the prayers.
Re: The lastest from Welderboy...
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Trust your instincts about what you feel.
I'm definitely a trust, but verify type of person, especially in a situation like this.

I guess it depends on how you feel about things,
Do you have any doubts that she's off doing what she says she is doing?
Re: The lastest from Welderboy...
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Why yes....I think anyone would have those kind of thoughts. It seemed that in the 1st. few weeks, she seemed to really let me know where she was all the time.
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Well...home alone again tonite. She had called me at work today....saying that she was going to her Mom's again to have Halloween with her nephews, watch a scary movie etc. I went ahead and worked over...I just got in, 10 PM and find a message saying" I'm not going to Mom's...tried to reach you at work, hope your not mad...I'll explain later...Uh, mh....Love, you". Sounded real serious...then "don't worry...I don't know what time I'll be home...but I won't be drinking". Man...I feel kind of at peace...praying all day, and now this comes at me...another test of faith ,I guess. This morning...I told her I wasn't giving up...she said neither was she. Peace all.
Re: The lastest from Welderboy...
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I just don't see this as recovery.. sorry.

At this stage, since she knows how all this has hurt you, she shouldn't be thinking of going anywhere without you, except to work and home.
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Well...I went to bed after my last post...it's now 3:22 am and I haven't heard a word? I think, maybe? I want to trust the that something good can come from this.
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