God we've run out of time!! the place is an bloody mess.

Tried running around getting it all clean with DD but .. oh damn it!!

Crikey I'm so nervous.. ****! OMG did I type that out aloud ?// <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

deep breaths and stop puking....


ok ..here I go, damn dress , ,,, DD just took the keys off me .. gotta go guys wish me luck.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

In her own words, believer, she thinks it is "sexy." You're right with your implication/insinuation--I should just leave it. It's just another sign I'm getting older!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thanks for the support you guys. It is a very scary thought him leaving, which he won't do, I don't think. What would we tell the kids? Where would he go, what would we tell the family? My daycare families too? I just can't imagine life without him. I'm sure he wouldn't go, but for him to be that unhappy with me to want to breaks my heart.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">OK, some "friendly advice" if i could--well, can't stop me anyhow! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
Forget the what would's and what if's--why did st say this? You dont need to answer this to us, but aparently to st you do. you guys can do this!!! Or is he just mad that the jets lost yesterday?!?!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

KY I have been so unhappy with Squid that I want to leave. but I didn't. And I won't. See thats what people who love their spouses do. We talk about how we feel with examples but we don;t do it. And time changes everything as you once told me, and now I am telling you again.

You are far too precious for ST to let you go and he knows that.
And only you who made him cry can dry his eyes again.

You can love him out of his sadness. Because thats what adoring spouses do too <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

{{{{{{{KY & ST }}}}}}}

Good luck, AW. Tell Aussie Idiotville thanks him for his service. Also the regular folks in the USA.

Bob, that was beautiful what you said to ky--and, definitely not trying to be funny. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">...done with real passion and I thought how UTTERLY I deserved it. I apologised unreservedly for making my Dad have to resort to out of character behaviour after months of reasoning failed on me.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I don't know if I'm "man" enough to do that. It *would* be painful. Not physically. Trying one more thing to get them out of their funk. Also, it's not their words that are biting--it's their non-actions. I would have to gaod them into saying words to me/brown--then it would be like a pre-meditated [censored]-kicking, which I don't think would be good either.
*sigh*

{{passing the box of kleenex to ky}}

Thanks Liny, how'd you know. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Or is he just mad that the jets lost yesterday?!?!?
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">If he got mad every time his team lost, Lions,we would all be hurting.

EN's, that is the problem. I'm not meeting his EN's.

LINY, Believer,


Is she mine? Well, I think so, because one day she was walking up the driveway and I thought it was me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Robby,

Caveman syndrome means you're very hairy and you have a fear of being scalped by a shaved monkey carrying a butcher knife. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Today's advice: (this is a freebie)

Over, under, over, under.

Have fun,

NOW

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">EN's, that is the problem. I'm not meeting his EN's.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">So..........? What are you going to do about that, girlfiend?!?!? {snapping finger from the left to the right}

LINY, My Dad didn;t provoke me. It was a premedited punishment beating. Almost angerless.

He put on loose clothes, collected his fiber hamme rhandle from the garage , came into my room and started hitting me.

Thouhgt it was a joke for a few minutes till I realised he was putting his full force into every blow. And he loved me so much he would have cut his own heart out for me. I was just such a jerk....and nothing else worked.
Like I said not advice just an example.

* KY I have no more to say to you other that you have helped so many others through the situation you find yourself in just take your own advice.
{{{{KY}}}}

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Over, under, over, under.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">RH....any input/explanation from you?!?!?

NOW - Bwaaahaaahaaa! You really fit in here. Talk about an idiot!

Jelly - More info, what EN's?

Good luck AW! And wishing you the best.

Dang you guys are tough.

Bob what advice, eat chocolate? I can do that.

EN's, loving him, being resonsive to his love, enjoying him.

I'm distant. I'm just not as loving as I once was, don't know why either. I can't put my finger on it.

He says he feels no love from me. He feels like he annoys me.

No, she's just being an idiot, now.

ummm, mebbe, some type of shaving reference? I have no clue, but isn't that always the case?

KY: Part of that (that part being annoyed) comes from some of the insecurities created by the A. Bob is right, you need to talk, preferably with the kids not around. I know last week I came home from a party, stuck my head in the living room (the W was there with 2 of the kids watching TV- Sponge Bob, That's so Raven, or something). I can't stand those two shows, so I went to the computer room (there's another TV there). And NOW thought I was ignoring her. The case was I didn't feel like being in the same room while SB was on. It can be tough. Hang in there, be there for him and try to talk. Eventually, it gets easier. It's just that some times its tough and you have to fight through those times, b/c you know the better times are just ahead. And if you quit now, you won't get there. (Remember all of BP's events? If he hadn't forged through he wouldn't be where he is now.)

Much love to both of you,
RH

Bob what advice, eat chocolate? I can do that.



</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">
Bob :" Squid is so miserable and distant while she withdraws. I don't what to do, KY other than love her and consistently love her so she never gets a chance to doubt my love for her"
KY :" Thats all you need to do Bob. Its what ST did for me. That constant deliberate love, always there is impossible to ignore or feel bad about. You and Squid will be just fine with you doing that {{{BOB}}}".

</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">THAT advice. {{{{KY}}}}

And a thorntons rum truffle.

Calling Starz, I did it again. Three posts in a row. That means I killed the thread, right?

Anyway, you said you had another thread here today 'splaining IB. I don't see it yet. You're working on it right?

RH and LINY,

Over once, then under once.....or, if you prefer,
Over twice, under once, or even over once and under twice. Come on, don't play innocent with me! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

NOW

Hint: RH, I think you should come home early.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />