Kiwi,

Don't worry about it. You did great!!

Next!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

No I didn't. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> It's been a freaking YEAR.

Jen

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KiwiJ.:
<strong> For Pete's sake Robby, READ MY POST.

Jen </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Me, me, me!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Patience is you're most endearing quality Kiwi!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

double!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

<small>[ January 11, 2005, 11:34 PM: Message edited by: robby13 ]</small>

Robby,

I'm so pleased your interview went so well. Seriously, I am.

Thank you for the laugh. Geez, I needed it. I also need the bottle of wine I've just opened and drunk two glasses of very quickly. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

And now, back to me.

Did I really do OK? I have to tell Rob now and I'm dreading it, but not. Boy, have I had a dose of perspective and reality lately.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Jen

You're dreading it because you're not 100% certain about his reaction. It's no different than anything else, except for the raw emotions in this particular situation.

Explain it and he will understand and respect you for it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thanks Robby.

OM was wearing horrible shoes. Rob never wears horrible shoes. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Jen

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KiwiJ.:
<strong>OM was wearing horrible shoes. Rob never wears horrible shoes. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Robby, my goodness wisdom looks good on you, much better than your tight skirt. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Jen, sounds like you handled things very well. Even if it hurts Rob a little, you guys are strong you will be ok. Wow, one year and you are so in love with your H. How awesome is that? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Rob has just got home.

See you guys, wish me luck.

Jen

luck <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Good luck, Jen. All's well! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

All is well. I've just told him. Didn't take long LOL as I'm back here now.

He was quiet and a bit "funny" but he said I knew you'd bump into him eventually. Anyway, after dinner we'll talk more.

Jen

{{{Jen}}} I have your back! GRRRRRR!!! See me in Bulldog stance. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

F-Again, and everyone.

Thank God we're (Rob and I) are so together that this was a blip. A very unsettling blip but it tied up the loose ends and I can only thank God that I have the right man who comes home to me every night.

Shoot, if only everyone would realise that NC is the answer.

F-Again and Starz, they (you're H's) are chasing unreality and rainbows and utter, total CRAP.

Jen

{{{.}}}

Posted to you in public. Going back and forth on whether I was going to say something or not, but, well, here goes...I know you edited your post, the first one. But, you didn't edit the title. We all know that some will be offended; Orchid, the sweetie that she is, just took it in stride. I don't know--with the state that your mind is in--if you had realized whether or not you left the title intentionally or not. Now, the real question is...

Do you care? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> (BTW, haven't checked my email yet tonight, but did before I left for hell--NG.)

{handing starz the soapbox again}
Dang starz, just put it up on eBay already! I'll buy it! Although, the TX snow has my first bid!

Justuss...sorry you had to edit...not sure of why you edited where you did--it was a battle cry for DD--the battle to choose life. I really thought you would have edited a different part of my post. (Well, now you probably will! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> ) I know you can't "respond" publicly, just wanted to apologize and explain.

Robby, great news bro! Can't wait to hear the update!

<img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> RIF didn't say hi to me tonight! (What's doin' RIF????--just think of it as only weeks left--not months! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

Bob--what a long way you and squid have come. Way to go man!

everyoone else--thanks!

THanks, Jen. I so needed to hear that tonight. I had my EXH - my first one <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Who I am still very close to tell me that I needed to move on for my sake and DD as WH has and our M is OVER! THen my IC told me that I was in the anger stage of my grief and that I would move on when I was ready. He idn't say not to try or to hope. THank God! BUt, he did say I needed to get to the point where I was empowered and di not let WHs actions control me. UH DUH! He also said that I needed to "listen with my third ear" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> That is, hear the things behind what people say. e.g. If someone says "trust me" or "I need a woman in my life" to RUN! Well, that I know. He also said to look at other possible red flags such as their relationships with their parents. He said that he wants me to work on empowerment, closure and control over myself only and no one else. All good thoughts and I am trying. BUt, boy is that stuff HARD! I am up for it! I NEVER want to be here again!

Well you know what I mean. Y'all are my friends.

Hey f-again!
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">"listen with my third ear" </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">And right now, your WH is thinking with his third leg!

LINY! STOP THAT! RObby might be listening! SSSHHH That was so pathetically tragically funny. I hurt myself laughing. OOOOWWWWWWW!

Hi rif !

I'm home on Sunday !

Oddly a waitress from Ellis Island casino hit on me tonight ! Saying 'I am flattered but I am a happily married man, so can I just get my drinks order plese ?' seems to be a bad thing to say! it makes thenm try harder !!

I'll get home virgo intacto don't worry !