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#1224439 01/13/05 09:21 AM
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Did anyone else get a "Fatal Error" recently when trying to access Idiotville? I did. We definitely need a FEMA director. Need a disaster recovery plan, a contingency committee, etc!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Robby,


YEAH! I got that too! WTH??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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Robby, I got the same thing. TIme to start I'ville Part Deux?

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Fatal error: Allowed memory size of 8388608 bytes exhausted (tried to allocate 883 bytes) in /www/marriage/html/forum/ultimatebb.php on line 267 Um, our we going to be forced to close down Iville??? What will I do? Where will I go? No where else in the world accepts us idiots like this town. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Can't catch up right now, gotta get to work. Hopefully I can get in and read up on y'all.

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Yep, me too. I knew someday someone besides IB would consider me a fatal error. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> What do we do now?

#1224444 01/13/05 09:36 AM
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First of all, don't panic.

REMAIN CALM!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

We will get through this together!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

If something happens anybody can start a new, temporary Idiotville. But we will need the queen to start a permanent replacement.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Let's just go about our lives as usual, everything is going to be OK.!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Fatal error: Allowed memory size of 8388608 bytes exhausted (tried to allocate 883 bytes) in /www/marriage/html/forum/ultimatebb.php on line 267

Highway Commissioner here, all the roads are open, there has been no earthquake, no tsunamis.

And I'm (Alexander Haig) in charge here. Nothing to worry about, everybody keep going about your business. Everything is fine and dandy, sweet as candy.

Perception is reality.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

#1224446 01/13/05 09:37 AM
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I just submitted a poem worthy of a Nobel Prize and now it's going to be shut-down. Not fair.

Can't they just get rid of the first 1 million pages - surely nobody goes back to the start. TT

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Mornin all.

Yeah, same messsage.

tt--you know, the whole class got every answer right? (Hehe--j/k--love poetry--good poem.)

F-again--we'll be thinking of you on your move...deep breaths!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Also, it does not make ME feel any better when people "bad-mouth" the OM because I realize I was in the same category.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">IMHO here...I understand what you are saying...HOWEVER, when you generalize like that, you are not taking into consideration (possibly) where the person who is referring to the OP is at their recovery, if they are. You are transfering those words into where you and RH are--you guys are at a different place. Make sense?
I now completely understand what the stages are: I'm finally at the stage to see what this OW is really about, and, I just don't care. Went through all different types of feelings..but, I just don't care. Hmmph.

Robby--best wishes tonight, bro!

#1224448 01/13/05 09:43 AM
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Starz: Up to the roof tops, if there's any looting, shoot to kill.

No, wait, I don't think there are any stores in Idiotville.

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#1224449 01/13/05 09:45 AM
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yeah Robby

been playing heaps of games just for fun but need a break I think.......... I'm starting to dream in Latin!!!

Alea iacta est <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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Well, she's gotta protect dobie in the restroom...you never know who just might steal a big mint!

#1224451 01/13/05 09:47 AM
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And I'm still in charge

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bob, please do NOT apologize for your posting!!! it has actually had a big benefit for me. just like you say reading the posts of FWSs help you. reading posts of BHs really help me. YOU are not the cause of anyone else's pain here. you did not go off and try to purposely say hurtful things to be mean. you were showing your perspective and that is why it is so helpful.

i certainly will not sit here and tell you there was NO pleasure of any type ever during all of this. thre was emotional and physical pleasure at times. however, i had to work hard to ignore the "ugly" facts in order to get the pleasure and it was impossible to do that much. then for me, as i got to hating myself more and more for what i was doing and yet feeling so very trapped in the addictivness part of it, i let OM treat me worse and worse. the best way i can describe it is to say i encouraged him to treat me as an object. because that is all i felt like.

people do things to cause pain to themselves. when emotional pain gets too intense in my head, i will dig my nails into my skin or scratch my arm till it bleeds. (actually i USED to do those things, not anymore!!!)

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">What stands out for me is how he could be so nice to me while feeling all that pain.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">ditto for me and it is amazing.

i am getting the same errors... you guys are all so funny!!!

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Fatal error: Allowed memory size of 8388608 bytes exhausted (tried to allocate 1242 bytes) in /www/marriage/html/forum/ultimatebb.php on line 267

I got the same message....

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Yeah...I really think we should start Idiotville II or something...I see Robby set up a refugee camp JIC, but...if anything needs to be saved, I would start doing it now!

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TT, it was a great poem. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Don't worry... I just saved Idiotville through page 446 on hard drive. I've been doing this periodically ever since the Jelly thread was ripped away from us!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

There's some great stuff here and I enjoy going back and reading through some of our "adventures' from time to time!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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OK...going out on a limb here...

As Robby has everything saved--if anyone needs or wants to get something or even a copy or whatever--can we take a vote to shut down I-ville ourselves before we are told to? Of course, where is the queen when we need her?!?!? And of course, we would need to vote on a name of our new province...

Just a proposal, from the AG's office.

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Yep got same message!!

hey Bob

dont feel bad about what you post...AW never takes it as anything other than the OP you were dealing with..... and I always intrepreted it that way too

I mean the things I say about OM are about OUR OM not anyone else here...... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

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In the past 60 minutes, 25 people have visited IDIOTVILLE
aussie2, robby13, LINY, FinallyLearning-T2M, RIF, Recovering H, DanigirlinVA, NotOnlyWords, legato, starz, faithful follower, fightingalone-again, Dobie, tummytuck, and 11 guests.

Wow! Lots of peeps here today!! Hello all! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Fatal errors are probably being caused by the lurkers, err "guests" reporting us to the Mods!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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