</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Chris -CA123:

Maybe Plan B is a better route, separation, breather???
That is exactly what Plan B is.
When a bs is done with Plan B, they will be reconciled or they will no longer want to be married to their spouse.
Ideally, the bs will (or should) have worked through all the issues and will simply not want to be married to the ws anymore. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Exactly, and it looks as if things are going this route for me once again. Thanks for your advice Chris, I think so many of us could use it. IMHO, rationalizing our situations does us little good and sometimes only prolonges fence sitting and mental spousal abuse...of course I had to learn all of these things the hard way...

ZIzzy...please read Chris's advice..sometimes the truth is not what we desire but it's the truth nonetheless

Good Bless,