That's just it, my gut feeling has been pretty accurate up to this point. I guess I just need to let it go. I can't do anything about it now. I need to trust her. She did seem sincere when she said she was going to be alone.

MIF

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by LovingWifeInTexas:
<strong> He is deer hunting, I think. His lil'EA woman is in AZ. So unless they decided to meet halfway and that's where he really is, then anything is possible.

I can't wait to also be out of this "Limbo" stage. Do you miss your wife?

I don't miss H yet...but I betchya I will tomorrow. Gonna be another long 4 days. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yes, I do miss her. We have been very affectionate toward one another and I feel so insecure that I need/crave that affection. So yes, I miss holding her. I don't think I will sleep very good tonight.

MIF

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by marriage is forever?:
<strong> That's just it, my gut feeling has been pretty accurate up to this point. I guess I just need to let it go. I can't do anything about it now. I need to trust her. She did seem sincere when she said she was going to be alone.

MIF </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well, at this point you do what you feel you have to do. Good luck man <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Thanks

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Well, stress levels are at a peak right now. Can they go any higher? I just tried eating some oreo's and milk and got heartburn pretty bad.

I really hope she was honest with me this time...

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MIF?

I'm going nuts, I need to clean the house but have no ambition to do anything. I have layed around all day checking MB every 20 minutes or so all day. Watched Mto3B and Dto3B on Dr. Phil, played some video games. I just noticed a smell and realized it's me. I am wearing the same clothes for the past 2 1/2 days. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

I guess, I will try and clean up a bit and feed my children. Then take a much needed shower.


MiF?

Somebody, anybody help. I am really panicking right now. I just called my WW and her cell phone was turned off. My call went right through to her voice mail. I just hung up. She said she would leave it on. I have been checking the cc's to see where she charged her room to and nothing is showing up. I think she sneaked off and is with the OM. What do I do?

Panic!!!!


MiF?

MIF, I'm here...I just found out H wasn't deer hunting...you guys were right along. He drove all the way to AZ to see OW...who is just a friend.
17 hours to see a friend. A 2 day drive to be there 1 day and to drive back 2 more days.

He has lied to me for so long.

LWIT

I am sooooo sorry

{{{{{{{{{LWIT}}}}}}}}}

I have a feeling that is what my WW is doing at the present time too.

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MiF?

Take a deep breath and relax. You have to stay calm for yourself and the kids. If you had made her stay, and she had plans with the om, she either would have gone anyway or made a rash decision right away. But you need to decide for yourself, if you can live with this uncertainty anymore. Try the number again. If no answer maybe you can start working on a plan b letter, just for your own piece of mind. you do not have to give it to her. It will calm you down to know you have a plan though.

Ok, called her again and no answer. I am thinking of calling the OM's house. He lives with his parents. I figure maybe I will get them on the phone and ask them if he is around and explain the situation to them. Maybe they can confirm if she is with him.

I have her aunt on the phone now says she doesn't know where my WW is. My WW said that her aunt and I were the only ones who knew she was going to do this.

MiF?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by marriage is forever?:
<strong> Ok, called her again and no answer. I am thinking of calling the OM's house. He lives with his parents. I figure maybe I will get them on the phone and ask them if he is around and explain the situation to them. Maybe they can confirm if she is with him.

I have her aunt on the phone now says she doesn't know where my WW is. My WW said that her aunt and I were the only ones who knew she was going to do this.

MiF? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">BIG SIGH ........... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> No advice here. Just protect yourself, I fear you are in for a rough time ahead. I can almost feel the desperation in your posts.

Call him.

The only way I figured out that he was lying is I e-mailed OW...got an out of office reply back. Then I dug, and dug to get the guys number in Idaho that he was "hunting" with here in TX.
LOL...guy was shocked....think H burned a bridge there. Nope, he isn't in TX and my H is with another woman. In another state, drove 17 hours to see her and they are just "friends"

OH...AND NOW...he isn't ready to give up on our marriage!

Call him.

The only way I figured out that he was lying is I e-mailed OW...got an out of office reply back. Then I dug, and dug to get the guys number in Idaho that he was "hunting" with here in TX.
LOL...guy was shocked....think H burned a bridge there. Nope, he isn't in TX and my H is with another woman. In another state, drove 17 hours to see her and they are just "friends"

OH...AND NOW...he isn't ready to give up on our marriage!

Gonna call after I get off the phone with her Aunt

MIF,

Hang in there guy. Sheesh this really sucks. I remember how I felt when I thought there was sneaking going on behind my back. It made me truly mental. And my gut feeling was right, I just didn't want to believe it.

Here's hoping your gut's wrong on this one...

I hope my gut is wrong here. Still on phone with Aunt. Gonna call OM's parents in a min.

Well, I just spoke with OM's mom. She said that he left last night at 9pm and she asked him where he was going. He told her to respect her privacy. I guess I know where he went. He went to spend the last 2 nights with my WW.

MiF?

Looks like I move over to the divorced/divorcing forum.

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

I don't know where to go on this board anymore. My husband is sleeping in the OW house. I could honestly careless if they are having sex right now...
I fought so hard for him for 14 weeks...begged, prayed, plan A'd...

Now...I don't even know if I CAN move forward anymore. This feeling is scary.