[QUOTE]Originally posted by KMEJ:


My brother and I have a problem that goes beyond this. He is guilting me- or trying to. I do not feel in the wrong here for going to the game.

Exactly, and you have your answer if you read your response again.

Going to the baptism is not going to make up for all of the ill-will going on in your relationship. If you wish to try to repair that, a special event is not the time. The focus should be on the baby.

Spend some time with your brother another time and try to work through a few of these issues "if" you feel the need to. This should be between the two of you as a brother and sister.

By the way, IMHO...an e-mail baptism invitation sent to your workplace hardly represents the special family occasion that they are trying to force on you. what ever happened to a nice invitation arriving in the mail at your home? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

<small>[ November 11, 2004, 07:41 AM: Message edited by: Ladysing58 ]</small>

technology happened- that and the desire to save a buck. Who ever heard of a potluck birthday for a kid, or a potluck baptsim either, all in the name of saving a buck.