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Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233502 11/28/04 02:20 PM
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T00MuchCoffeeMan Member T Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 6,950	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by marriage is forever?: TMCM, That's good advice, I hope I can take it. MIF?</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">What have you got to lose by taking it? <small>[ November 28, 2004, 01:20 PM: Message edited by: T00MuchCoffeeMan ]</small>

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233503 11/28/04 02:24 PM
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MIF? Member M Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 608	I guess, I meant that I hope I can detach. That would make this all so much easier if I could. MIF?

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233504 11/28/04 02:38 PM
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T00MuchCoffeeMan Member T Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 6,950	You detach by emotionally making peace with the fact that you cannot and should not control your WW. Repeat it to yourself as many times as you need until it emotionally sinks in: I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W.

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233505 11/28/04 02:49 PM
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MIF? Member M Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 608	I'll give it a try.

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233506 11/28/04 04:09 PM
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native00 Member N Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 485	Can I join in on this detaching buisness??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233507 11/28/04 04:52 PM
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MIF? Member M Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 608	Sure thing native, it'll be good to have a buddy to walk around here chanting with me: I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> MIF?

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233508 11/28/04 05:56 PM
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T00MuchCoffeeMan Member T Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 6,950	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by marriage is forever?: Sure thing native, it'll be good to have a buddy to walk around here chanting with me: I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> MIF?</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">And if we really want to get serious with our chanting, we can shave our heads, wear Hare Krishna outfits, carry lighted incense sticks, play the sitar, and chant ad nauseum till the cops come by and arrest us. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233509 11/28/04 09:32 PM
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native00 Member N Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 485	I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. I cannot and should not control my W. Is that sirens I'm hearing?

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233510 11/28/04 10:44 PM
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MIF? Member M Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 608	Ya sure you betcha! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> MIF?

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233511 11/28/04 10:45 PM
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native00 Member N Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 485	Too bad all this is "easier said then done" Man, how cliche!

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233512 11/28/04 11:28 PM
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T00MuchCoffeeMan Member T Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 6,950	Yep it's tough but once it sinks in you experience a peace of mind that can see you through the toughest of times.

Re: 911!, FWW is now a WW again... #1233513 11/29/04 12:08 AM
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MIF? Member M Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 608	I can not and should not control my W... MIF?

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