this is so crazy
i have to laugh, it is ridiculous!!!!
but at least im laughing. she tried to freakin hug me when i was kissing the kids. SHE IS NUTS

while we were eating she asked me if i got sick to my stomach while i was in lawyers office i said yes and that i thought we were making a huge mistake. she said i dont love her because some of the things i said after finding out about a. i hate her etc etc etc. was hurt and pi$$ed, i was like what about the hurt you caused. but didnt say anything. just sat there playing w/kids. she said i was just mean, that i sat around all day looking for things mean to do to her. FOG FOG FOG FOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

these are the emails she sent this am to the man who is so dangerous

Let me call you in a minute.
-----Original Message-----
From: Jeff Jones
Sent: Wednesday, December 01, 2004 10:29 AM
To: Teri Jones
Subject: RE: Macy's birthday


i wish

i have to be at the a-port at 7:20

i thought i would just take them and hang out and eat


------ Original Message ------
Received: 10:27 AM CST, 12/01/2004
From: "Teri Jones" <
Subject: RE: Macy's birthday


Are they going to spend the night or what?
-----Original Message-----
From: Sent: Wednesday, December 01, 2004 10:25 AM
To: Teri Jones
Subject: RE: Macy's birthday


8:20 am

can i pick up the kids from carries 2day?


------ Original Message ------
Received: 10:22 AM CST, 12/01/2004
From: Subject: RE: Macy's birthday


That sounds good. I forgot you were going this weekend. Have fun! When do you leave?
-----Original Message-----
From: Jeff Jones Sent: Wednesday, December 01, 2004 10:20 AM
To: Teri Jones
Subject: Re: Macy's birthday


ill be in vegas until sunday

her birthday is monday we can take her to chuck e cheese monday evening. if you want


------ Original Message ------
Received: 10:03 AM CST, 12/01/2004
From: "Teri Jones" <
To: "Jeff Jones"
Subject: Macy's birthday


Do you want to do something this weekend for Macy's birthday?

Teri Jones


Thank you,

Jeff Jones

means she is second guessing herself and she feels and sees you slipping away. I think she is scared because you are not acting the way she thought you would when she up and left. Her little game is not playing by her rules. BACKFIRE city baby. What are you going to do about this, does it say you can not call her as well? How does visitation work- any idea?

i cant call or come w/in 500 yards of her work or her or the kids daycare anywhere.

Print and keep all e-mails from her. Write down any and all contact made by her, either by phone or letter or what not, keep everything, that way when/if she goes to the court and says you violated the order (when she is mad or what not) or when it comes to custody- you have lots of documentation.

so now you can't see the kids? What about Macy's birthday? Please this women needs help. I hate it when people play these games during all of this. All that is going to hurt is the children, URRGG!! Sorry that is not directed at you, just my frustration at your wife and others like her. If there is no danger why yell fire. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

im 1 ahead of you baby i already faxed me att. the reciept for dinner and the copies of the e-mail i posted....... it says i have to take a wife battering class, wtf!!!!
im going to vegas, im not going to take her calls or call her, i hate not talking to the kids but, im not gonna take this crap........ where is melodylane when i need her

you are telling me, these kids are my life. i have changed careers and am making 1/2 the money i was so i could be there for every step while she is running all over the country w/ her panties down (me bad). but anyway now i have missed t-giving w/them and now her 2nd b-day.
where is lightning when you need it

what can I help you with since it appears that Melodylane is not on tonight.

Is she trying to contact you? have you tried to contact her since you recieved the order?

I wish my H wanted to be a part of our kids' lives as much as you. H chose the OW last year on Christmas eve. Did not show up at decided time, did not show up until 10:30 after I put 3 crying little boys to bed because they did not get to open their presents or see their daddy- I was very upset. I understand what you are saying.

You have been everything for these kids, you have sacrificed so much in the name of family- and it got you no where. Really you sound like an upstanding guy any woman would be lucky to have as a husband- on paper at least (meaning what you have told us thus far!) I am sure that this will be the last birthday you will miss (if you have to miss it at all, some lawyers can work wonders!). Next year at this time you will either be in recover or have full custody of those babes!

she yells at me and makes me have ba!!s i didnt mean anything about that . i would like her to see not whinning or am i whinning?


you are doing a wonderful job.......
you are awesome

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KMEJ:
<strong> I wish my H wanted to be a part of our kids' lives as much as you. H chose the OW last year on Christmas eve. Did not show up at decided time, did not show up until 10:30 after I put 3 crying little boys to bed because they did not get to open their presents or see their daddy- I was very upset. I understand what you are saying.

</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">KMEJ:

Everytime you tell that story my heart breaks. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> In this lifetime I do not know if I could have forgiven this if I were you. I don't know how you do it KMEJ.

kmej
i am not perfect. i have made huge mistakes or i would not be here. im a yeller!!!!! you know lb #1 angry outbursts,,,, that is me!!!!!! im not pleading innocent, im pleading nolo contende,,, but i kept it in my pants.....

no one is perfect dalson, we are all human. Yes at least you kept it in your pants. Now you need to work at counting to 10 before you yell.

I am so not innocent either. I get frustrated easily, I do not communicate well. I am always afraid what I say will be taken wrong, and when I am not understood I tend to walk away upset. I have thrown things at the ground (no kids present- actually once baby was- opps) I have even hit my H when he has pushed me pasted the brink, or in self defense. I am no angel either, but I am trying.

Lemonman- everytime I tell that story I get teared up. I struggle everyday with forgiving my H. I have nightmares almost nightly of the things he us to do to me. I get depressed over it. It is not easy to move past but I am trying, and H is trying to improve. H is getting better with the kids and with me. Every day is a new day, and I never know what it might bring. I come to this board and I read about all these other people struggleing and I think I do not have it all that bad. THen I see all these careing men and I want that for myself. I see my neighbor out playing with his kids, or when he gets home he gives his wife a kiss (OUTSIDE EVEN!!) and then hugs his kids and asks them all about their day, and then spends time with my kids too as he sees their daddy is always at work. He actually watched me mow the lawn carrying my 1 year old in my arm and asked me if he could help- I said no and mowed the 1/2 acre with my son- I am too proud to ask for help. I want what my neighbor has. No lemonman it is not easy to do, I never said it was the right thing to do either, but for some reason I am staying put, I am not ready to give up on this man yet. I still think the man I married is in there somewhere. Hopefully he is and I can find happiness and security again, and not end up having to leave b/c something huge happened.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KMEJ:
<strong>
Lemonman- everytime I tell that story I get teared up. I struggle everyday with forgiving my H. I have nightmares almost nightly of the things he us to do to me. I get depressed over it. It is not easy to move past but I am trying, and H is trying to improve. H is getting better with the kids and with me. Every day is a new day, and I never know what it might bring. I come to this board and I read about all these other people struggleing and I think I do not have it all that bad. THen I see all these careing men and I want that for myself. I see my neighbor out playing with his kids, or when he gets home he gives his wife a kiss (OUTSIDE EVEN!!) and then hugs his kids and asks them all about their day, and then spends time with my kids too as he sees their daddy is always at work. He actually watched me mow the lawn carrying my 1 year old in my arm and asked me if he could help- I said no and mowed the 1/2 acre with my son- I am too proud to ask for help. I want what my neighbor has. No lemonman it is not easy to do, I never said it was the right thing to do either, but for some reason I am staying put, I am not ready to give up on this man yet. I still think the man I married is in there somewhere. Hopefully he is and I can find happiness and security again, and not end up having to leave b/c something huge happened. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">It is ok, either way I am in your corner my friend. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

i love this board!!!!!!!!
i hate that i found it!!!!!!!
i love the fact that i meet people like yall, i too long for that kiss when i get home , o wait when she gets home, it is just human nature. these are the good things in life , to us earth dwellers.....the aliens on the other hand have no idea what they have. they go looking for green grass and find a bug steaming pile of manuer (sp?) and we have to live with the smell!!!!!!

Thanks Lemonman that means a lot- not sure why- but it brought tears to my eyes <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> . I could be that tired.. however I think I know what it is and it is not that.

Still wish you would put your pic on Faith's board so I could put a face to the name... Will you think about it? and everyone else should too! Sorry I am a visual person.

welcome Jeff- sorry you have to be her, glad you found us.

me too