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Dani ... Block the uglies (OW and WH) out of your life.
As I used to say to Believer... Deja moo ...The feeling that you've seen this same old bull before.
Whenever the uglies try to get to you ... say out loud ... "DEJA MOO" ... and make yourself laugh.
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<small>[ December 06, 2004, 08:29 PM: Message edited by: Pepperband ]</small>
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PS ... the doggie papers and such?
Gone... burn everything. No reply to the uglies.
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Dani,
I am not familiar with any criminal law that would require to you to give paperwork about dogs to a person who is NOT their owner. Is VA a community property state? If so, as long as you and WH are still married, those dogs are marital property - split 50/50 and your just as entitled to hold that paperwork as your WH is. OW on the other hand has no claim or right to ownership of the dogs or the papers. If she calls the police on this one, they will laugh their collective ***** off at her.
I do agree with Orchid, though...call the police, make a report that you are receiving harassing phone calls from OW - start creating a record.
Just my thoughts...
Brit's Brat/XBS-43
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Status: D-day 5/02, Divorce final 5/05. FYI to those who question the viability of these A's once the marriage is over - XH tells me he and OW have ended it completely and he would like to reconcile our M....
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Ok, gotta separate things into YP and HP.
YP...Your Problem
HP...His/Her Problem
A problem is when a person is motivated to solve it and has investment in the problem getting resolved.
The dog tags? HP By calling you up, threatening, b&*ching, the OW is making it YP. She is probably REALLY good at this...making people jump for her and making HP into YP.
Yes, they need the tags. Don't hold them back out of spite or revenge, but don't jump to give them to her and make this a hardship for you. IF you have contact with her let her know WH can pick them up when he's available.
Documetn, document, document. There may come a time you will need to press forward with allegations of harrassment. You have to show over time this going on. Date and document everything. Print off the emails, store them away.
What if...he comes back and OW is still harrassing you both, you will want to show a record of harrassment from long ago.
I agree with ark, call the police and ask what to do...
Reconciliation still possible...well sure...but right now you have to separate yourself form this alien being.
It's a bit like Invasion of the Body Snatchers, this WH is not your H. Remove yourself from his hurtful words.
Lastly, if their R is based on such hatred for you, what will happen when you are no longer in the picture, taking their emails, playing their game? Yep, they'll turn on each other....
Look forward to Plan B, get a bucket of popcorn and sit back and watch...
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Ugh.What a pair. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> I have to respond about the OW though,as usual.I agree with the other's,throw that thinly veiled pathetic attempt at a threat right back at her.Calmly explain how you will notifiy the authorities that some stranger is harrassing you if you hear one more PEEP from that person.She's testing you and I'm sure it's the two of them against the world right now.Whatever. Make sure that wretched woman has been warned,you will NOT play her game! O <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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