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I, unfortunately, have no where to go or no one to be with this Christmas & NYE. I will sit at home, & probably drink. My family is spread far and wide, and her family was who I would spend most of the holidays with. I don't know a soul in LA, 'cause I just moved there. I know - it sucks.
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TravellinMan,
It is sucks and you are still accept it ?. This is what I hope it won't happen. How about visiting Church on Christmas Eve ?. You don't need to know a soul to enjoy the crowd.
I hope some MBers around LA could adopt you as a family guest. Hey, we might have something going for NYE ... but we are 6 hours away from you.
-rh-
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On the 24th, I'm going to take my kids to church. We don't normally do this but with WH gone, there's nobody to leave behind. Afterwards, I'll be scurrying, hurrying, wrapping and of course, watching A Christmas Story repeatedly on TV
On NYE? It's my son's last night in town. We might just hold a little party. You know who, will not be invited.
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24th - FWH and I are going to the family church service with our new baby and then dinner at my Mom's house. Christmas morning we'll go back to my parents house and then we'll have dinner at FWH's Moms house with his family.
31st - No plans yet!
<small>[ December 22, 2004, 08:33 PM: Message edited by: kloe72 ]</small>
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Dec 24 - We had planned a chrismas eve dinner at a restaurant but we had an argument and I asked him to move out on Dec 23. So I took the children and went to the dinner without him.
Dec 31 - I have no plan as if right now. I just met a guy that I am interested in. Hopefully, we can have a date on New Year's eve if my husband will have the kids.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Hurt1234: <strong> Dec 31 - I have no plan as if right now. I just met a guy that I am interested in. Hopefully, we can have a date on New Year's eve if my husband will have the kids. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You do have a plan ... a plan to be a wayward wife yourself <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> . -rh-
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Hurt1234:
Don't do this. Take the evening, find some good reading material - like "Surviving an Affair" or "His needs/ Her needs" (both available from the website or at many bookstores), and curl up by the fire and learn how 2 come out of this experience in a positive way.
-ol' 2long
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REDHAT:
Thank you for being there on Christmas Day, I know I was so drunk last night but with out you being there I am probably totally mess up. I would like to say thank you so much.
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Por nada my freind ... stay away from those girls and booze, it is a deadly mix. Those girls have problems on their own and the booze will gave you hang over. I am just a dial and 30 minutes away <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> .
Hurt,
Please read my signature line. We all been there, the hurt, the pain, the loneliness ... however no one or no one thing would be able to plug that whole ... not even WS!. Focus on your self and you will survive this.
-rh-
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