My WH would be somewhat less than pleased if she got pregnant. It's actually making me laugh a little thinking about the reaction she'd get. The very first word out of his mouth is going to be ABORTION, I know this because he flipped out when I got pregnant with our little girl (I have 3 kids only the youngest is ours together)and that was the first thing he said to me. He already has 4 kids from a previous relationship (their mother died of cervical cancer -- very long story)and our daughter makes it 5.....lol, he'd be hating life and her if she made it 6.
He only makes 158.00 a week after the rent is taken out (he rents from his boss), he gives me $25.00 of that and if I ever need anything, he'll give me the money if he has it. If I took him for child support, he wouldn't have money to live/eat/pay his utilities. Wouldn't that be a LB??? I mean I would be making him basically either move in with her or come back to me...I don't think he would fancy either option right about now.
I talked to him tonight at his work, he didn't seem mad about the Minister thing that happened earlier. I kept the conversation light. He started talking about how he probably won't have his job very much longer. (He mentioned something about being an OTR Truck driver a while ago) I said "Have you checked into the truck driving thing anymore?" He said "Nah" I said "Why not?" (Not that I'd want that...I'd hate that) He said "Well I'm checking into something else." I said "Oh, what?" He said "I called my friend Billy and talked to him about working with his brother as a plumbers apprentice." So....who knows, that's fine with me, as long as he's not working 2 doors down from the ho-bag. It's one less stipulation I'll have to make about reconciliation.
-Caren
