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Kandi, I'll go check it out too.
But talking with the "un-educated" on message boards is too high a price to pay for you.
At times I feel the need to educate others as to what it's really like to deal with infidelity, but unless there's "a student" in the room, no one is going to learn anything.
At least here and on SYMC people want to find out what people who've had similar experience think about their situation. They want to learn.
The general public who hasn't experienced infidelity haven't a CLUE what it feels like and what they would do if they were in our shoes.
I'll stroll over there later...and take a look.
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OMG! I dont have time to read everything yet...but it isn't post 302 anymore! It's post 318 and I cant find the original post from atom! UGH...that board! I am trying to get Joi to come over here so we can help her! I had to go thru the producer...you know what she said "forget Joi, you dont need to help her" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> OMG! I am shocked! BI**H
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Kandi, you may not have noticed, on down in the many topics today, I started a thread in honor of your wonderful message to Joi.
I am just SO IMPRESSED with your forgiving attitude towards her.
I know she is not the OW in your marriage yet it is a step in the right direction, being able to forgive that which seems UNFORGIVABLE. And giving her a helping hand, and inviting here, wow, Kandi, what a gal you are!
Julie <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Go to: //http://www.drphil.com/ (It wouldn't let me url it, so you could copy and paste it in address bar.)
Next click on the subject beside Kandi's picture:
"The Doctor, the Wife and the Mistress." <small>[ February 08, 2005, 12:35 PM: Message edited by: Blessed TIME ]</small>
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Hi Kandi, Give it to em with both barrels... I dont think you were out of line, at all. Please keep in mind you are in serious GRIEF mode right now. Dont worry about anything other than surviving from day to day. Ask for help with the boys if you need some time. Ask for help, anyway. I'm reading a grief recovery book (my friend just died), and it's focus is on death and divorce. You're doing double-duty right now. I am so sorry this is such a hard time for you. It's 'The Grief Recovery Handbook: The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce and Other Losses' by John W. James & Russell Friedman. Recovering From LossGrief Recovery Website Tell everyone to 'eat my shorts' <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> . Please take care - Dru <small>[ February 08, 2005, 01:47 PM: Message edited by: Drucilla ]</small>
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Thank you for all your support! and thank you for those who took the time to post on that board...OH THAT BOARD! I find it absolutley absurd that they would remove the original posters post, but keep mine...Now it looks like I am talking to the air! HELLO <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> What the! I dont understand that one at all...
I spoke to A producer, not THE producer who blasted me, and told her the sit over there. She said she would look into it and if necesary remove my post...I told you I didnt' want it romoved, but it sort of looks like I am an idiot now for blasting NO ONE! DUH!
I find it strange how the poll says 57% want me as an update, yet those people are so unkind. Joi cant accept my apology, so be it! I tried, right! Oh well! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
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