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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by tqt: <strong> Sorry David! I'm trying to keep up with both you guys, and I posted the above post on the wrong thread. This is all too confusing for my simple brain <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That's OK TQT - both of us are in plan B hell, and any advice appled to both. Athough I will say this - I' trying my hardest to get Caren some living $$$$ - sold some of my photgraphy stuff today - I WILL not let her suffer... David
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tqt-
I don't mind at all that you threadjacked LMAO.
Ummm do I feel less confident because of my financial problems ..... I don't know.....I don't remember feeling confident, but I believe you....LOL, I know I said that, I remember saying that, but I don't remember feeling that.
I do this to myself you realize, it doesn't mean you or David will....I analyze myself into a corner....and then I sit there and rock back and forth (figuratively of course).
I think I'm just stuck in feeling sorry for myself. It's all well and good to tell someone to not feel sorry for themselves but it doesn't mean that they can listen to your advice. I can hear you, but I can't listen to you...it doesn't make it in.
I am sure I am making my WH as nuts as I'm making you guys. I'm like "Don't talk to me...okay talk to me....NO Don't talk to me....okay I have to talk to you....Can you talk to me without talking to me?" He's probably like Damn it woman...get a grip (I am picturing that scene in airplane where all the passengers slap the hysterical lady).
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DAVID!!!!!!!!!!!
DON'T SELL STUFF!!!! OMG....don't worry about me suffering. Sheesh.......get your photography stuff back.
I had to read that twice....Holy Crap David.
You're sh*tting me aren't you. Stop that...think about you. I'll be okay.
Arrrrgh, I feel horrible, please tell me you're kidding or I am going to die.
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Good, Caren -
Then you won't mind a little help till you can get on your feet. I do pro-photography - have way more than enough equiptment - way more. I put out a bid on sone lenses, fliters, lights and camera bodies - as soon as I get a good solid offer, I'm sending you the money (one time only), but it should help you get past a month while you look for a job..
Love,
David
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Caren - for God's sake - I put 1000's of dollars into this **** and ues abot 500.00 worth for everything I sell. You can use it without havning to grovel back to A******. Please consider it!
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It's that or pay for a G*******d divorce, which I don't want! Which would you prefer?
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David-
That is VERY nice of you, I appreciate the thought alot, but you don't need to save me....you're barely staying afloat stop trying to save other people or YOU'LL DROWN!!!!!!!!!
Hells bells, David.
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Caren, I earn enough to live check to check - antything I sell - any of my paintings or photos are gifts from God. If He grants me the $$$ from what I am trying to do for you, it's because He wants it hat way. Hells bells, Caren, what would you do for someone else on here? What makes me any differernt? I feel for you, I've pulled for you from the start. We are in simikar circundtnaces. I won;t know till Friday if I can help you. Allow me that love and courtesy, OK???
I don't get to help many people ever - let this be ONCE when I can!
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David~
I usually post on the EN board, but I have been following your story.
Couple questions for you? Do you have an intemediatry (sp sucks tonight sorry) set up?
And why oh why are you reading her Text Messages? That isn't fully going into Plan B. You need to get yourself away from that chaos. Reading the messages is only going to hurt you more.
Please protect yourself!
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by neverenough:
<strong> David~
I usually post on the EN board, but I have been following your story.
Couple questions for you? Do you have an intemediatry (sp sucks tonight sorry) set up?
And why oh why are you reading her Text Messages? That isn't fully going into Plan B. You need to get yourself away from that chaos. Reading the messages is only going to hurt you more.</strong>[quote]
I have an intermediary, I delete each TM that comes in - and each email. But we share a phone plan, so it'd hard to just 'delete' them -curiosity kills the David...
Unprotected... David - 200.00 to stop the phone plan - per line (3 lines)
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I have an intermediary, I delete each TM that comes in - and each email. But we share a phone plan, so it'd hard to just 'delete' them -curiosity kills the David...
Unprotected... David - 200.00 to stop the phone plan - per line (3 lines)
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I hope you know I mean well. I am not trying to upset you. I understand how hard it is to not read. But in reality, it's not benefiting you at all. It's still not seperating you from the pain of the A. SInce cancelling the phone service isn't possible, how about disabling the text message feature? Or possibly getting yourself a new phone, with it's own plan. It may mean paying on two services but it may also be a good thing for you.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by neverenough: <strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I have an intermediary, I delete each TM that comes in - and each email. But we share a phone plan, so it'd hard to just 'delete' them -curiosity kills the David... Unprotected... David - 200.00 to stop the phone plan - per line (3 lines) </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I hope you know I mean well. I am not trying to upset you. I understand how hard it is to not read. But in reality, it's not benefiting you at all. It's still not seperating you from the pain of the A. SInce cancelling the phone service isn't possible, how about disabling the text message feature? Or possibly getting yourself a new phone, with it's own plan. It may mean paying on two services but it may also be a good thing for you. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I DUNNO - I do'nt kmow whay to think..... David
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Are either of the suggestions possible? To protect yourself?
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David, You ok? It's hard man... I know... I was just there, and I can still feel it. I know you're sick of hearing it, but I don't know how else to say it... hang in there. For whatever it's worth, just know that there's lots of people thinking about you, and rooting for you. (of COURSE we're rooting for you -- we know you're gonna win! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ) tqt
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by tqt: <strong> David, You ok? It's hard man... I know... I was just there, and I can still feel it. I know you're sick of hearing it, but I don't know how else to say it... hang in there. For whatever it's worth, just know that there's lots of people thinking about you, and rooting for you. (of COURSE we're rooting for you -- we know you're gonna win! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ) tqt </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Damn, tqt - I know I'm gonna win no matter the outcome. I'm already soemone I wouldn't recognize 4 months ago. But the pain right now, the insanity, the stupidty, the confucsion on my kid's faces...I giess this is the wrong nigtht to think about this. Anyone watching the Fogerty/Urban concert on CMT????? David
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OK I BLEW PLAN B TONIGHT.
Dangit.
Got into a 1 hour TM disussion with my wife, where things turned to what a creep I am. She did also admit then she is over-controlling....but somehow it went back to me.
I tried to explain that 'Plan B' is to protect what I love I have left for her - she siad 'You have to deal with your problems" and went on to say that the OM gives her 'romance' - as if I couldn't. Had to back out of the conversation by suggesting she get back to study.
Points: David - 0
Cheryl - 0
Marriage - 0
Other plans: 21
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Hang in there David. Tomorrow is another day!
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<small>[ February 23, 2005, 02:18 PM: Message edited by: tanelornpete ]</small>
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Are you ok David?!? you're sounding a little cryptic.
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There, right there, she admitted she was too controlling. Now that's a piece of evidence you can use.
As for the other stuff it's babble.
My question to you is: Was getting that info worth the price you paid?
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